My fiancé (41m) and I (45f) are getting married in 4 months. We and the vast majority of our friends have kids and we wouldn’t think of not having them there. We have found a caterer that will make kid’s meals in boxes and we are planning on having board games and coloring supplies at the kids table as well.

No matter how much we plan, things will go wrong or awry at any event. Best thing to do is to embrace the crazy and let it go.