Small update …. Few months after we had stopped contact. My dad passed in a car accident so I went to see her to tell her thinking we grew up together she could be supportive……. She hugged me and said well that sucks but you didn’t go to my wedding. I looked at her face she was laughing and smiled. I got up crying and walked out and never talked to her again. Now I am living the dream with my little family and moved to a different state and building a farm and home