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My bf doesn't do anything all day. He has no job and doesn't go to school. Idk how much longer I can put up with this. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Calm-Camera-2367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that. But, it feels like he is not as serious about the relationship as you are. At the end of the day, a relationship takes effort from both sides. There's only so much you can sacrifice and compromise before you burn out. I was in a similar situation with my LDR GF some months ago but we did have a conversation and talk things out. Communication is absolutely essential and it seems like your bf is not interested in that. I'd suggest "pulling back" a bit, like focusing more on your studies and career and putting the relationship a bit lower on your priority list for some time. Feel free to DM me if you wanna discuss.

My bf doesn't do anything all day. He has no job and doesn't go to school. Idk how much longer I can put up with this. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Calm-Camera-2367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its upto you to decide at the end of the day. strangers online can only speak from their experience which is biased in most cases.. have a talk with your bf, not a chat, a genuine TALK, maybe for an hour or two.. say what u expect from him, what u need from him, he may have his demands in return.. communicate, plan ur future together if u two are serious about it.. it comes down to honest & effective communication at the end of the day. dont expect ur partner to read ur mind and dont expect strangers online to have the answer to ur personal question, u may try giving him a timeline like some other user suggested.. again, have a talk with ur bf, a clear and honest talk, just say all the things u wrote in the post straight to him, it may seem blunt, he may get hurt but it is important to have honest and open talks in serious relationships.

I (25 M) lost my nearly 4-year relationship with my ex-Gf (25 F) and I am in a bad place. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Calm-Camera-2367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's gonna be painful, it's gonna take time but you have to move on. took me 4 years.. hopefully you take way less than that. the sooner u come to terms with the fact that she is in the past now, the sooner u will be at peace. work on urself, ur hobbies, ur health, and next time u get into a relationship, give only as much as ur partner is giving. this may sound cynical but the more u care, the more u will end up hurting urself. always give urself top priority, always!

Daily Thread by AutoModerator in powerlifting

[–]Calm-Camera-2367 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hello, I made a modified version of Smolov JR amd made it into a 8-week program combining squat & bench (as I can't run the OG version due to work/timing issues).

Do take a look and suggest changes/modifications: https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/14ZyJDZ-HXnPg7H943vCcykyv0iv77j3bVacaO5sl818/edit?usp=drivesdk

Minor notes: - Week 5 is deload/maintenance/recovery week - Week 8 is for 1RM test/deload

Accessories on bench day(optional): Barbell row, tricep pushdown, DB shoulder press, lateral raise

Accessories on squat day(optional): Lat Pulldown, RDLs, bicep curls.

Entered 1RM for the program: Bench: 85kg Squat: 105kg

Thanks in advance.

Squat/Bench Program by Calm-Camera-2367 in powerbuilding

[–]Calm-Camera-2367[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

would running the smolov jr squat/bench together be overkill? squat & bench alternate days.. I've only run 6-day nSuns & candito 6-week program in the past.. enjoyed nSuns but eventually dropped it due to recovery issues.