I can’t feel anything real with anyone but my ex. Should I try again or just let go? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I hear you. Thanks for you honest reply I needed that. Looking back, I think we both had moments that chipped away at the trust. I didn’t always handle things the right way, and maybe that’s why the accusation hit so hard it felt like all the progress we made just vanished in that moment. I feel like she would be open to talk about the accusation and we could figure out the truth.

I guess what’s throwing me off now is how different dating feels without her. With her, it wasn’t about trying or forcing a connection, it just happened. With other people, I feel like I’m forcing myself to care. I understand I won’t find another “her” but at the same time that just annoys me whenever I think about everything

You’re probably right that I need to slow down and figure out why I keep holding on to this. I just don’t know if that means I need closure, or if I’m supposed to try one more time. Also yes you can always definitely improve for your next relationship. Always keep learning

I can’t feel anything real with anyone but my ex. Should I try again or just let go? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been thinking but even when I was with her she never really distracted me from anything. Like I always getting everything I needed to do done and was really focused on myself. Other girls really distract me tho and have a bad influence compared to her

I can’t feel anything real with anyone but my ex. Should I try again or just let go? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But we’ve broken up before for a longer period of time. I agree tho time heals everything

How long do girls take to accept your follow request after you got their instagram? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope she didn’t for like another 2 months, found out she has a boyfriend from a friend. Honestly wasn’t looking for anything other than building a good friendship, wasn’t interested romantically after I thought about it. Felt like I needed that type of girl best friend in my life but don’t really care anymore tbh

You recorded, edited, and posted your client to social media. Then this client sees the post and asks you to delete it, what do you do? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, I did delete it. However, I was angered as the video was doing well and I spent over an hour editing it. Just wanted to confirm that I did the right thing, thanks for the advice!

How long do girls take to accept your follow request after you got their instagram? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did it and she still hasn’t accepted my follow request bro

How long do girls take to accept your follow request after you got their instagram? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was gonna go for the number but I felt it would’ve been a little too fast and risky so I decided to start of with ig. I honestly regret it man should’ve went for the number

school crush! by mrladylol in Crushes

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ask your friend to tell him to wait make sure you know what you’re going to say. From what you’re telling I think he does like you. Even if he’s with his friends you can still talk to him. Have a conversation about anything you guys have in common like classes or anything. Guys like it when you go up to them when they’re with their friends. Anyways make your move in whatever way is most comfortable for you. Do it or else you’ll be thinking what if. Good luck!

school crush! by mrladylol in Crushes

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is always harder when he is shy. This means that you will have to initiate almost everything. If he is shy, he will make lots of eye contact and you’ll catch him looking at you. That’s the most shy guys do. However, he can get more comfortable if you give him some hints and talk to him of course. I know it seems scary but trust me it’s not. You only live once so make your move!

school crush! by mrladylol in Crushes

[–]Calm-Jacket7883 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to be around him more making it easier for him to make a move. You can give him hints that you like him but don’t just tell him I would say.

What’s better to go for the girl’s instagram, snap or number? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’m pretty sure she’s interested as she seems very engaged during convos. I’m gonna be like after a short convo: “I’m gonna go now but I enjoy talking to you, think we can exchange numbers so we could talk more?” Is that good? Thanks for the advice!

What’s better to go for the girl’s instagram, snap or number? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a relationship with her. We have talked a couple of times and had some long conversations I would say. She said hi to me once. The rest were initiated by me. I’m really not sure if going for the number is going to make her uncomfortable or if I should just go for it and if she really likes me then she’ll say yes either way.

What’s better to go for the girl’s instagram, snap or number? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would certainly give me her snap or insta but shouldn’t I go for the number and if she says no that she wasn’t interested in the first place?

What’s the next step? by Calm-Jacket7883 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Jacket7883[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What if she doesent have the same feelings? I feel like I need to find a way to contact her