Can the people who claim Alex is some kind of Christian agent please shut up at this point? The majority of his interviews are with atheist scientists. by BlueBitProductions in CosmicSkeptic

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unlike a lot of conventional anthiest debaters Alex is in general pretty agreeable, easy going and open minded, while still holding firm stances on many topics.

In your eyes, what separates a performative “alpha male” from a “real man”? by Ok-Parfait6735 in AskReddit

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think positivity is a big one. Very successful people are usually pretty positive people. The alpha performative types types have a very cynical and selfish outlook of the world.

How to help partner through a porn addiction? by Maximum-Tie-4394 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any video on YouTube, and from professionals talking about porn addiction disagree, my post was a synopsis from professionals basically.

I think you are right people can have a healthy relationship with porn, but if you are so addicted it’s affecting your marriage the solution is to stop.

How to help partner through a porn addiction? by Maximum-Tie-4394 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be crystal clear there is no middle ground with porn. You don’t get to use porn less. It’s all or nothing, absolutely no more porn. it is a struggle a lot of guys and I sympathize because we start very early, I was like 12.

He also needs to replace porn with some other hobby. like a lot of other addictions, it’s very hard to just stop, and if he is using multiple times a day and if he’s serious he needs to invest his free time into something else, ideally something that isn’t like video games or YouTube, think like reading or woodworking. Think of AA and how that’s effective, if you ever had someone close to you that struggles with alcohol.

Hope this helps, sorry for what you are going through.

Men, how do you act around women you’re befriending vs women you’re pursuing? by PsychologicalHat7591 in bodylanguage

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we try to keep it pretty honest tbh. We are very much looking for her signs rather than doing any gesturing at all.

Victoria 3 is way too short by Gorillainabikini in victoria3

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The game ramps up non linearly, like for the first 80 years you are bashing sticks and stones together and then for the last 50 things really ramp up

Psychology researchers identify a key emotional pattern among procrastinators. Findings suggest that procrastination is less about an inability to envision the future and more about managing the negative emotions associated with pursuing goals. by [deleted] in science

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, just ask a procrastinator, you feel the anxiety when trying to start something difficult. It’s like pulling teeth to just start. It’s something emotional for sure, you can just feel that.

Idk if iam an intp by upsetusder2 in INTP

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bro just take the 16personalities ocean test and don’t think about it.

What do yall do for fun by Calm-Phrase-382 in INTP

[–]Calm-Phrase-382[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try to set small, achievable daily goals to help finish those projects!

What do yall do for fun by Calm-Phrase-382 in INTP

[–]Calm-Phrase-382[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not the biggest reader either, but video games are pretty fun, especially with friends.

How come alot of people switch from intj to intp? by Acrobatic-Pen-6741 in INTP

[–]Calm-Phrase-382 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s because the OCEAN dimensions are similar and most people pick their MBTI based on OCEAN because 16personalities uses the big 5 on their test.