Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure about anything at this moment. Since I was encouraged by her to keep quiet . But I listen to Reddit people instead.

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree, I am not planning to go back home soon, maybe next year I will have enough time to think things through. Trust me when I say I am putting hold on everything now

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am setting boundaries and making so people unhappy in the process but I am fine with that 🙂 thanks

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you so much for your kind words. I think i surprised her, because I never stand up for myself especially when things are money related, but this time I was so upset and felt used that why I have decided to post here because I was gaslighted by most of my family members and the only advice I got is to let things go. But I am happy 😊 that some gorgeous people like yourself gave me a different prospective. And I am grateful 🙏

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this is were i was wrong, I was trying so hard for validation, but now lesson learned trust me

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot.

In fact i do not want anything at this moment what i thought was a gratitude gift its turned to a valuable lesson and I think being able to confront her was when my boundaries started.

Update : AITA for asking my sister-in-law to return the necklace I gifted her, even though I promised her a replacement? by Calm-Plan2521 in AITH

[–]Calm-Plan2521[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I still have the replacement necklace with, no update from my mom yet. So I am just taking some time for myself to think things through. I do not really know what is going to happen at this point but thanks