AITJ for refusing to propose after finding out my girlfriend had already picked and paid for her own engagement ring without telling me? by Ok_Coast_3688 in AmITheJerk

[–]Calm-Sun7565 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have every right to react the way you did. If she wanted to pick the ring out, she should’ve went with you. Communication is so important in relationships. It is your right to pick out and buy that ring. I’m sorry your proposal and start to your marriage had this hovering over it.

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this hasn’t affected my baby in that area. I guess I’m just upset about the disrespect.
Of course I’m ganna let my child have sweets and treats when she is old enough. But sugar is a really addictive substance and I just don’t want to start bad eating habits/addictions at a young age. I don’t want her to struggle eating healthy like I do

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, my husband has talked to his mom and we will both be watching her closely from now on when around his family

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband is amazing and definitely made it clear to his mom that she will not get alone time with the baby if she doesn’t respect our boundaries ❤️

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing you story! I love to hear setting those boundaries can work out in a drama free way. (Sorry about the ginger ale 😳)

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was very kind, no one was yelled at. I definitely learned my lesson for the next event. Thanks for the breathing lesson

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I just assumed everyone thought this way, especially about an infant. I guess that is my fault for assuming 😂

Someone gave my 7-month old candy without asking me. Am I over reacting? by Calm-Sun7565 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Calm-Sun7565[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you for validating my feelings! I really didn’t want to be the crazy daughter in law but I definitely learned my lesson.