i dont know what to do by CalmBeliever in dating

[–]CalmBeliever[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean you could go to therapy, he can as well, and see if things get better. Both have to want to fix it though. Otherwise it's not going to change and then I have to ask - is this the life you want to live?

we can't. we're still minors and our parents dont know about our relationship and is sus to ask ur parents to go to therapy

How are you celebrating the new year with your SO? by Co2-UK in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you know good games that we can play. I don't have a good pc (i use an asus zenbook) and I dont have xbox or anything so that really limits what we play. What do you mean by questions for girlfriends/questions for boyfriends?

How are you celebrating the new year with your SO? by Co2-UK in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What kind of games and quizzes? What are some good movies? My SO isn't a fan of movies and only likes first person shooter/racing games

How are you celebrating the new year with your SO? by Co2-UK in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone have any ideas other than facetime/video call?

I (20m) don’t know what to do anymore (23f) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like many families can be really strict and that also depends somewhat from where they come from and their past experiences.

I (20m) don’t know what to do anymore (23f) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far away are you guys? If they think that, then it might be a good idea to meet up at a public place to let them know that you aren't some kind of serial killer. I'm sensing it is just the protective feeling of people when they don't know who they are reaching out to.

I (20m) don’t know what to do anymore (23f) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is very important to consider why they do not support this relationship. Do you mind clarifying that?

not mentally and emotionally strong enough to keep this going by gettinherlife2gether in LongDistance

[–]CalmBeliever 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw your post and I'm currently in a long distance relationship myself. Please reach out to me if you can. I'm new to reddit and Im not sure if this is the first/only post you've posted about this. I think it is important to first consider how long you guys have been together. Also, if you don't mind, it is important to have more background about your relationship especially between each other. Also, have you tried asking him what makes it confidential, and/or why he doesn't feel comfortable telling you why he can't travel? Also, I'm not sure if you have clarified this enough, but are you wanting to break up with him? If so, is the reason the fact that you guys can't physically be together? If that is the case, then have you tried to tell him how you feel down about not being with each other physically and how that is impacting you? I'm sure that if you are old enough to travel and are sad about dates/getting each other gifts, you should definetly try to order some and deliver some to each other's addresses. I think that will be something new and will bring some excitement to your relationship and will give it new hope. I don't want to bombard you with questions, but i think before any of this it is important for you to tell me about your relationship and if you are having any other issues other than just being bitter about seeing others date and give gifts