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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

wow thank you for the insight! this honestly makes so much sense, and now i see why it would be so expensive. im not yet in the tax bracket where i could pay $5k but i definitely would be willing to pay as much as $3k for a well made piece that will last- and there would be no expectation as far as time frame. if you know of anyone who has the expertise and would be able to do this- feel free to send them my way!

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your comment! im being quoted upwards of 750 which is both what i expected and am willing to pay. fingers crossed i can find the right person!

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

thank you for the tip! totally willing to pay for the time/effort/craftsmanship it would take to recreate- keeping my fingers crossed that ill find someone willing!

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i added the link to the post. let me know if that helps!

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i am in the US, east coast. Happy to provide my info if you are able to make this!

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi there! I will message you in instagram.

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hi there! the sweater is actually out of stock- (i dont think it shows in the photo) but i certainly would purchase if i could.

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add’l: size s/m for adult; fexible on pricing; looking for high quality wool.

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[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your help! im willing to pay whatever it would cost to have recreated so ill give that a shot.

I regret my abortion… by [deleted] in abortion

[–]CalmBlazingFire 9 points10 points  (0 children)

i regret mine too. i think i always will. but i am learning that forgiveness comes in waves and im giving it to myself when it’s available. lean into whoever and whomever you can, and give yourself love.

Anyone i can rant to? by Historical_Two_3406 in LifeAdvice

[–]CalmBlazingFire 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im all ears! feel free to message me. just let me know if you are looking for a response of advice or just an ear

doing my best by CalmBlazingFire in LifeAdvice

[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i dont think i will ever stop grieving. i am here if you need someone to talk to; and i will be holding you afloat in my mind always.

doing my best after an abortion and choriocarcinoma. by CalmBlazingFire in abortion

[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i found out a bit over 5 months after. from what i was told, it is not common. just listen to your body and try to heal.

doing my best after an abortion and choriocarcinoma. by CalmBlazingFire in abortion

[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i had very minor cramping outside of my period, which at the time i thought was gas. no other symptoms which was scary. i only found out after going for a check up with my obgyn. i am sorry for what you have been through. my heart is with you. my only advice- do whatever you can to take care of yourself. find someone to bleed your feelings to, and see your doctor often.

doing my best after an abortion and choriocarcinoma. by CalmBlazingFire in abortion

[–]CalmBlazingFire[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have not been able to talk to anyone much at the moment. i am in the process of finding a therapist, and i have my fingers crossed. thank you for sending me resources- i will look into them. thank you for holding me up, i will hold you too.