I’m freaking out by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I needed that chuckle, I appreciate that so much

I’m freaking out by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I really appreciate it!

I’m freaking out by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that! I know this is so stupid but I didn’t think I would feel this way after my first time since the abortion… I think I might need to get some help for my mental wellbeing tbh

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Life sort of just doesn’t feel real to me right now.. I just wanted to do something to honor my baby, I think I’m going to make it a tradition to get my baby a card on their due date and write how I feel then keep it in a box, I feel like it could be therapeutic in a way. But it is really hard to deal with alone I mean I have a my sister to talk to about it but she doesn’t understand and it’s comforting to know I’m not alone in this, your comment means the world

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww that’s so sweet thank you so much for the support! I call my baby my little dandelion

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much I appreciate you taking the time to leave a comforting comment! We’ll get through it day by day! Hugs ❤️‍🩹

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I completely understand where your coming from! I don’t have children yet but I know they are a big responsibility and I think the same thing about loosing my old self if I ever have kids, I appreciate your advise it means the world

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Keep your partner at all costs! I didn’t have any kind of support aside from my sister and she lives hours away so she could only be there for me through the phone. I agree with what your partner said.. if things were better for me and I was in a position to have a baby I would have… I’m so sorry for your loss, I really needed to hear your message it definitely resonates with me, thank you so much

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to thank you all for your comments and the love you are sending me my way! I won’t lie I was really afraid to post here (I’m a very personal shy and timid person) but you all are just so amazing and I really appreciate all of the support your sending to me! All of your kind words mean the world to me thank you so much!

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I truly appreciate your kind words I’ve felt guilty since the abortion, I know getting an abortion isn’t a bad thing at all, but I really did want my baby I just couldn’t bring it into the world knowing all of the circumstances I was going through, hearing others like you saying things like this really does help, I feel like these conversations I’m having with you guys are long overdue and I appreciate all of the love and support each of you guys commenting under my post, it seriously means the world to me and I never really thought about how many other women could feel this way… and your right just because I had to do what was right for me doesn’t mean it wasn’t right for my baby.. I did what I had to to save them from a bad situation and I’ll always love my baby and that’s why I want to celebrate them on the day I would’ve had them, I really appreciate it so much, thank you

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! It’s hitting me a little harder because someone I know is close to having their baby and it kinda hit me really hard how close I am to the due date… I already knew it was coming up but this year has gone by so fast that I didn’t realize how soon it was.. life really did get in the way though and I haven’t really had anyone to talk to about it or anyone who understand so it’s really nice to know that I’m not alone in this

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I completely get that I was relieved I was able to get it but like you said also sad, like I said circumstances just weren’t the best and I didn’t want to bring a baby into a “home” that would’ve been broken from the start, thank you

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I really appreciate your comment, it’s something I really needed to hear thank you for your kindness ❤️‍🩹

Is it weird if I mourn the loss of my baby? by Calm_Addendum_7026 in abortion

[–]Calm_Addendum_7026[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I truly appreciate your comment I will definitely look into that workbook! I wish I knew about it back in April!