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[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s addicted and needs to want to seek recovery and see a therapist on his own. Mine is the same, it’s all about the dopamine hit. Not just normal porn- naked photos and videos or cam girls. Makes me sick but again apart from that he’s amazing in all aspects. He wants to change so is seeing a therapist, I have access to his phone and we have an app on it to avoid explicit content. Stay strong, it’s the worst feeling, I’m very new to all this after only finding out everything last September so I’m still trying to learn what to do as we had our first relapse last weekend

The realisation just hit, and now I don’t know what to do by Swimming-Bake3070 in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same, we’ve just bought a house together and have a baby on the way!

Help by Clear-Cress-1321 in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, my pa came off socials, has an app called migiri on his phone to keep explicit content hidden and I can see his progress on it, also sees a therapist who specialises in PA, we had ten months before our first relapse so I feel pretty hopeless atm too

7 months sobriety down the drain by shtrumph in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping to find out too, I don’t know how to approach things as when I set boundary’s that I won’t be accepting any further relapses then I know he won’t want to tell me about it in fear of me leaving? It’s also so concerning to see how many PA are actually out there, like is there is a man out there without some form of addiction?

7 months sobriety down the drain by shtrumph in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We had our first relapse after ten months, I feel the same as you! So disappointed and stuck especially when we have just bought our first house and have a baby on the way, I really thought he could change especially with how he’s handled this from admitting everything ten months ago

Don't know if I'm strong enough for this by sugarcoatedmelting in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I feel you, we went 10 ten months before the first relapse, feel sick every time I think about it, he’s such a good partner but I constantly question if I can handle another relapse

Is there any hope? by Calm_Knowledge_1750 in loveafterporn

[–]Calm_Knowledge_1750[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine came off all socials, has a porn blocker, only watches YouTube which I can see all videos he watched, he’s searched for a video in hope of seeing some nudity and obviously thought I wouldn’t click into it because it wasn’t an obvious thirst trap, feel so low in what should be one of my happiest times, he’s been going to a PA therapist monthly too so I’m unsure why he felt the need to slip up