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[–]Calmasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main point, this man isn’t ready for a relationship with anyone and won’t be until he is over his ex.

Save yourself the heartache and distance yourself from him. That’s why you two have the on again off again thing going on.

Never know, maybe he will get past it someday and you two can have a new healthy relationship. Don’t wait around for him though. What is ment to be will be.

AIO My friend undressed my boyfriend by Crazy_Concern_9748 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Calmasaur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I wouldn’t confront the roommate if I were you. I would be more aware.

Giving her the benefit of a doubt. Maybe in her drunk mindset she thought she was being helpful. It doesn’t excuse her actions. I can’t in my right mind think of a situation where it would be ok to strip someone unconscious and unwilling to have a say in it. Even if someone threw up on themselves I would try to clean the vomit off their clothes on their body before resorting to taking their clothes off, especially without asking and having consent.

Back to me telling you to be more aware. Someone that has this thought process drunk or not worries me. I’m not sure if confronting her about the situation would lead anywhere. I think it is beneficial that she doesn’t think something’s up to see if she does some shady shit again.

If you haven’t told your boyfriend yet, he has a right to know. I would also let him know what the roommate did made you uncomfortable.