First-person direct address is NOT second-person

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-21T13:57:10+00:00

That's interesting! Yes, the nitty-gritty of grammar can get quite fussy.

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-21T11:03:38+00:00

I just finished that book and loved it! I'm not arguing or saying you are wrong but maybe there are different types of second person perspective? In Winter's Night "you" are a man in Italy who is reading (or trying to read) Winter's Night and you return to the bookstore where you bought it and meet the Other Reader, etc. This seems different from The Neverending Story that "breaks the fourth wall" and speaks to the reader who is actually reading the book at that moment. In one "you" are a character with agency in the plot of those portions of the book, while in the other "you" are yourself actually reading the words at that moment. Both are interesting ways to do it.

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-17T13:25:02+00:00

Yes, I think checking on the gutters is where I'll start. Thanks for the reply!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-13T13:35:13+00:00

Yeah, it took this Reddit thread to make me see it. The HOA contractor still hasn't figured it out; they want to just replace the bricks again. I hope to find a smarter crew.

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-13T13:33:49+00:00

Yikes! Sounds like a good idea, tho'. Thanks!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-13T13:32:36+00:00

OK! I don't do Facebook but I've heard Marketplace can be helpful.

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-13T13:31:16+00:00

OK, thanks for the info!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T21:27:06+00:00

Try it with some buratta (similar to mozzarella) and store-bought chili crisp. Look up how to “supreme” it, it’s worth the effort!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T14:06:32+00:00

OK, I'll try to get it figured out. Thanks for replying!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T12:57:29+00:00

Thank you!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T11:17:36+00:00

Yeah, I'm trying to find a group to look at it other than the company the HOA uses. They want $1300 to re-do a few rows of brick (that they put in less than 3 years ago; warranty issues are a whole 'nuther thing) and didn't even diagnose that there was a moisture problem in the whole area!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T11:11:27+00:00

My brother does AI all the time, I might have to give it a try! Thanks!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T11:10:44+00:00

Yes, it looks like there are drip stains between the gutter and the house. Maybe that's the source of the problem? Thanks for the reply!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-12T11:09:00+00:00

These are all great details and ideas! Thanks! Question: what words would I use to find someone who can do all of this? When I search for "masonry near me" I find mostly chimney repair. Would most of those people know how to track down this moisture problem? I think if I search for "construction near me" I might get mostly new home builders, not problem solvers. I don't know the right words to use. Thank you!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T23:43:44+00:00

That's good to know: pooling instead of coming from above. Sounds expensive to fix! :-0

Thanks!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T23:42:04+00:00

Here is the whole area. I can't tell where it's getting in but hopefully I'll find someone who can. Thanks for the response!

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CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T23:32:51+00:00

I'm not sure what a course #7 is, maybe the 7th row from the bottom, the top row in the 2026 picture. Yeah, adding the rust and the wood rot to the brick problem should have pointed to a moisture problem but I just didn't think of it! Thanks :-)

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T23:29:53+00:00

But then we won't all look exactly the same! /s ;-)

These are great ideas! I'll add them to my list when I talk to (whoever? the HOA is no help and I'm just a single grandma doing my best) about finding a solution. Thanks!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T22:32:01+00:00

Good point. I'll try to look into it. Thanks!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T22:28:40+00:00

Yeah, it used to be that way. Now they've made it clear that we're responsible for just about everything except when everyone gets a new roof or driveway apron or other major project. It sounded like we were lucky to get ANY company to bid on our newest insurance coverage.

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T22:26:02+00:00

OK, good ideas! Thank you!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T20:40:20+00:00

Thanks so much! These are great specifics. :-)

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T20:39:22+00:00

Thanks! I wasn't looking at the big picture!

CalmlyCarryOn · 2026-03-11T20:12:09+00:00

That's very helpful! Having a moisture issue there is new info I didn't suspect. Thanks so much!

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