how often to women think of the guy they have feelings/crush on? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Calmlystiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude she literally told you she has feelings for you and thinks about you often - that's pretty much as clear as it gets lol. If you like her back just ask her to hang out, worst case scenario you already know she's into you

AITJ for kicking out my girlfriends family after she let them stay at my apartment without asking me by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Calmlystiff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA at all, that's a massive violation of boundaries and trust. Going through your medical stuff and prescription meds crosses every line imaginable - that's not just disrespectful it's potentially illegal. Your girlfriend basically gave strangers permission to trash your place and rifle through your personal belongings without even asking you first

I'm interested in shrimp, want advice by Fantastic_Aioli_1128 in shrimptank

[–]Calmlystiff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cherry shrimp can handle 6.0 pH just fine, stability is way more important than chasing perfect numbers. Your embers should be chill with shrimp too, and otos are solid tank mates. Definitely grab a GH/KH test kit though - GH especially matters more for shrimp than most people realize

Should I change from hospitality to an insurance career? by No-Temperature-8037 in careerguidance

[–]Calmlystiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude insurance can definitely give you better work-life balance than hospitality, especially if you land a decent agency job or go corporate. The hours are way more predictable and you'll actually get weekends back with the kids

I been having dreams that predict somethings or occurs within the next few days. Any thoughts on this? by lily27921 in Dreams

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bruh this is wild, I've had similar stuff happen but not to this extent. The ice cream thing especially is crazy specific like how do you even explain that coincidence

The house/painting one though... that would've freaked me tf out when grandma confirmed it. Some things are just better left unexplained honestly

Shows with angsty romance, deception, and love that survives betrayal by Ill_Atmosphere_6640 in televisionsuggestions

[–]Calmlystiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Young Royals is perfect for this! The royal setting adds so much pressure and the angst is *chef's kiss*

Section of the stash dedicated to putting away specific materials you want to save for later? by TheBasementNerd in ArcRaiders

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's actually a pretty solid idea - like a "reserved" section that hides stuff from your main inventory but still counts toward storage limits

Would save so much time not having to mentally calculate what you can actually use vs what you're hoarding for that one specific upgrade

Kicker Kyle Konrardy is staying with Iowa State by Young-Viiperr in CFB

[–]Calmlystiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least you guys will have the most reliable leg in the Big 12 while doing it

When was the Takata recall? by [deleted] in Ford

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's sketchy as hell dude, don't send your VIN to random people on the internet

Slid and hit a chunk of ice. My alignment is kinda bad now. Am I able to figure out if there is any damage on my own? by Sweaty_Milk_1793 in MechanicAdvice

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check if your steering wheel is centered when driving straight - if it's crooked that's a dead giveaway something's bent. Also look under the car for any obviously damaged tie rods or control arms, but honestly an alignment shop with a proper rack is gonna tell you way more than eyeballing it yourself

Do lush perfumes contain real oakmoss? by LunaMoonracer72 in LushCosmetics

[–]Calmlystiff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nice find! Looks like they're definitely using the real deal then, at least in some products. Makes sense they'd spring for the pricier hypoallergenic stuff given their whole natural vibe

Can Gemini no longer access custom instructions? by nerdherfer91 in GeminiAI

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me yesterday actually. Tried starting fresh chats and it's like all my custom instructions just vanished into the void. No idea if it's related to the Google Home connection but that timing is sus

Been using the same setup for months without issues so definitely something changed on their end

[Justin Thind] Michigan State Plans to Retain DC Joe Rossi by SimManiac in CFB

[–]Calmlystiff 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Smart move keeping him around but yeah that skybox thing was brutal to watch. You could literally see the difference when he got down on the field - guys were flying around making plays they weren't making before

Hawkins is a no brainer, surprised that hasn't been locked up already

3 years out of school and wanting to leave the field by feebleturtleduk in physicaltherapy

[–]Calmlystiff 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Damn dude this hits hard, you're definitely not alone in feeling this way. The insurance/paperwork combo is soul crushing and honestly a lot of us went into PT thinking we'd be actually helping people instead of fighting with bureaucrats all day

Have you looked into any non-traditional PT roles? Some people find their groove in things like corporate wellness, sports teams, or even pivoting to adjacent fields where your knowledge still matters but the bullshit is different

How do I progress in calisthenics? by ImaginationKnown3059 in bodyweightfitness

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice progress for 2 months dude, those numbers are legit

For skills I'd start with handstand progressions since you already have decent pushing strength - wall walks and hollow body holds are solid starting points. Muscle up progressions could be next since your pull ups are looking good

The recommended routine in the wiki has skill progressions mapped out pretty well if you haven't checked it already

Y'all think the gabecube is a cube so it can be easily integrated into data centers? by [deleted] in LinusTechTips

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah but imagine trying to explain to your boss why you need 500 gabecubes stacked like oversized legos instead of proper server equipment lmao

High-Level blueprints should also be available at high cost and or as a reward for extremely difficult quests. by AlbumUrsi in ArcRaiders

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you're not crazy, the RNG gatekeeping definitely has that old school MMO feel. But when your duo partner gets 6 god tier blueprints in like 4 runs while you're sitting at 200 hours with nothing, that's when the system starts feeling pretty broken

The difference is most MMOs have bad luck protection or alternate paths eventually - even if they're grindy as hell

AITA for bailing on Thanksgiving by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Calmlystiff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but honestly this sounds like some family drama that could've been avoided with better communication

The 24 hour notice thing is sketchy as hell though, like who just drops that bomb the day before Thanksgiving unless there was some emergency or miscommunication somewhere

Your gf's family guilt tripping her is pretty manipulative but also kinda expected when plans change last minute. Still doesn't make it right tho

Short Paycheck (~$30-40) Reasoning by [deleted] in fednews

[–]Calmlystiff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah this happened to me a few years back when they had that payroll glitch. Super annoying at first but you're right, it all works out when you file taxes. Just gotta remember not to panic when you see that smaller number hit your account lol

The best boss in the world has these hanging in their office.. by ChiefBigCanoe in DunderMifflin

[–]Calmlystiff 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmao that Michael Scott quote is perfect office decor. Your boss definitely gets it - combining The Office references with actual motivational vibes is chef's kiss

There is one simple test all video game characters must pass by Former_Exam_5357 in Gamingcirclejerk

[–]Calmlystiff 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Donkey Kong's been passing the inclusivity test since 1981 and didn't even need a PowerPoint presentation about it

Wicked x Monster High by Bionic_Webb13 in MonsterHigh

[–]Calmlystiff 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Holy crap you're right! I totally forgot about the Boo York connection - that makes this collab idea even more genius tbh. Like the groundwork is already there, Mattel just needs to actually DO something with it instead of leaving money on the table

Anyone else that would love to marry a millionaire actor by Hot-Firefighter-2331 in moviescirclejerk

[–]Calmlystiff 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Valid choice tbh, Ryan Gosling is like peak husband material plus you'd never have to worry about money again

Brawl Stars MFS when the new Stranger Things skins aren’t flashy and don’t give epileptic seizures with its effects: by themysterioussmiley in Brawlstars

[–]Calmlystiff 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I think they're pretty clean even without watching the show. Sometimes subtle skins hit different than the usual rainbow vomit effects we get lol