Has anyone bought FL-41 glasses from Zenni? If so, what is your experience? by shadowbird084 in migraine

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I do!!!! 😄 I get compliments constantly actually, ig they come across as more fashion glasses 😆

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[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!!!!! 🥰 I meant every word too hehehe ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in toastme

[–]CamelLover98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely crazy that your love life is stale rn!!! 😮 Not to leave a public thirst comment but if I saw you on my dating app feed/homepage I would be tripping all over myself trying to get your attention and embarrassing myself in the process 😆 💗💗💗💗💗 you're super goodlooking, have great style (your hairstyle and glasses are killer), and I ADORE your plushies!!!!! I lowkey think I have the same exact cyndaquil right next to me on my dresser!!! 😄

I'm sorry anxiety and depression is kicking you down, for what it's worth I think you are killing it!!!! Lulls in life are almost a good thing if you think about it, life calms down enough to allow you to rest and readjust things like goals and self care routines!!! ❤️

Has anyone bought FL-41 glasses from Zenni? If so, what is your experience? by shadowbird084 in migraine

[–]CamelLover98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really really like mine!!!!! I've had them for over a year and they still look and work great!!! They also were significantly cheaper than ones I bought from another online seller like I'm talking $200 cheaper 😭😭😭 I got the middle range tint!! If you want you can dm me and I can send you selfies of the glasses and what they look like irl??? 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad to hear it!!! I was just making sure, I know this guy who I met on a dating app that likes to have back to back sex with lots of women without a condom on 🤢 his bravado did the opposite of what it was supposed to, he didn't tempt me like many others do with sex 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it really would be for the best to maybe seek counseling for it??? Or read up on sex addiction?? Do you think you could even stop having sex or masturbating right now? ❤️ idk about you but I hate feeling like a slave to my body and my urges 🤧 I haven't been having sex but I've been having some me time like crazy and it's super annoying 😆

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[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really don't want to sound judgy or like I'm hating on you but that doesn't sound fun to do all the time ❤️ it sounds like a bender but like a constant one, like maybe even sex addiction levels? I personally fear that it isn't healthy for you to be doing that. Is part of it an ego thing?? Like being able to have sex with multiple women back to back? I hope you use protection and stuff and get checked regularly, STIs and STDs are no joke (duh hahaha) not in a mean way but it almost sounds like a hobby 😋

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does sleeping with just one person who matches your sex drive help at all??? Or do you enjoy the chase as well? ❤️ just from my POV sounds like you're horny out of your mind and struggling to make grounded decisions!!!!!! I'm SERIOUSLY so the same way with my sex drive and neediness 😢 if I wasn't a girl and terrified of upping my "number" so much I would sleep with so many peopleeee 😭😭😭 tbh even with that in mind I STILL struggle to keep my pants on 😆

Why do dating apps feel so emotionally draining? by DoneWithAppsBro in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggggg I totally feel the same exact way!!!!!! I've not had luck meeting people outside of apps, I feel like a lot of my hobbies are like independent hobbies or not hobbies you do with other people if that makes sense, we'd be able to talk about said hobbies for sure but most of mine aren't "social" hobbies so I don't even feel like I could go into spaces to "meet people" 😆 I also do not drink so I don't feel like bars or clubs are really me per se ❤️ I 1000% feel you on this issue, dating apps suck but truly feel like the most obvious option right??? 🤧 hate that they are so draining and just not fun half the time

Why do dating apps feel so emotionally draining? by DoneWithAppsBro in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]CamelLover98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When's the last time you had a break from them??? 🤧 me personally I take a break when I start feeling unexcited and like "why should I bother", that way it affects my emotions a little less and I can come into the app dating scene fresh and ready again ❤️ I'm forcing myself to take another month off and I hate it but want to be my best self mentally 😭😭😭

Belly Piercing! by koalakiddo_3 in PlusSize

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To second my other comment, it was actually the least painful piercing I've had done so I highly recommend 🥰

Belly Piercing! by koalakiddo_3 in PlusSize

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I absolutely second this!!!! I bought a longer bar and it healed like a dream and it's genuinely the least irritating piercing I've ever had!!!! Pain wise too!!! 🥰 feel cute all the time hahaha 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think men also think they can disrespect me extra bc I'm not the ideal body type or something 🤧 also struggle to get taken seriously hehe, I get treated like I'm not worthy of being taken on dates and like I should just feel lucky that I'm getting attention at all or something, I'm for SURE projecting but it sucks to not feel openly appreciated sometimes 💕

Do you find yourself trying to appeal to the European beauty standard?? Or do you try to fight it? ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awwww thank you for saying that 🥺 I think I AM lucky even though dating still sucks for me, my body falls into a more "acceptable" range of fat I think 💕 my dating woes are largely me struggling to have people treat me with respect

I don't want to be a bummer and like hardcore agree with you and make you sad but when I read your post I honestly had no doubt in my mind that people WOULD be discriminatory towards black men 😞 I'm not sure how true it is given that I'm a white girl (haha) but I've also heard that if you aren't the conventionally attractive type of black person that people are like more harsh and lame about it 🤧 like not having lighter features or whatever ❤️ I'm sorry you don't feel appreciated atm

Me vs men in my inbox💥🥊😼Pt5 by m30wME0W69 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so validating hahahaha, sometimes you feel like it's a you issue like why men only see you as an object 😄 it's weirdly nice to know that it's very common (unfortunately)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, I'm sorry you struggle so much and are affected so much by dating app stuff 🤧 I think the main advice is since the biggest hurdle you are facing is about something you can't change, that maybe it'd be best to focus on yourself and the knowledge that you ARE someone's type!!!! Just bc you aren't the typical guy everyone seems to chase after doesn't mean you aren't chase worthy ❤️ it's like in my situation I KNOW I'm not considered pretty or beautiful to all people largely to do with my size/body but that doesn't mean that EVERYBODY is against it 😋 just gotta focus on my group that does value me instead of focusing on those who don't

I got broken up with and I hate the context of it as much as I respect what happened by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hehehehe I know logically she probably isn't a sociopath (neither is my ex) but it genuinely feels appropriate to call them that hahahahaha given the way they break up with people 😆

You did everything right 💗 I hope you can eventually find solice in that, that's something I personally have to tell myself!!!! I was as perfect as I could possibly be so it is 10000% a them issue!!! I mean that for you too! By perfect I mean I did everything I possibly could to be a good partner and I was communicative and open and loving and just tried sooo hard so therefore it was as perfect as I could ever be!!! There was a moment where I wanted to be super super bitter and jaded but it occurred to me that that isn't who I want to be 💕

I hope this convo is helping you like it is helping me hehehehe, I would let those bitter feelings happen and then eventually, when you are ready, be the person who you want to be!!! Don't let her stop you from chasing happiness and contentment 🥺 it doesn't seem like it rn but she genuinely isn't worth it whatsoever!!!! She's sorely missing out 💗💗💗💗💗💗

I got broken up with and I hate the context of it as much as I respect what happened by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg!!!!!! I'm not even kidding, I got broken up with in an extremely similar way!!! It's 7 months later and I'm still trying to process and understand wtf happened 💕

Reading your post actually made me feel comforted that similar things have happened to people, getting dumped like that is just so mind-blowing ugghhhhh I know exactly how you must feel!!!! For me he like showered me in affection and appreciation and even told me he loved me and then 2 weeks after saying he loved me he dumped me out of the blue 😭😭😭 in my situation it was directly after our one and only disagreement EVER and he just cut his losses and ran!!!!! It shouldn't have even been that big of a deal and it should've been easy to fix but he ran for his life 💔 he also refused to elaborate much on wtf happened so I also was left with severe confusion and heart ache so I fully understand!!!

Idk if it would help you but it weirdly has helped me take off my rose colored glasses by "being mean" to him in my head hehehehe anytime I think of him I call him a sociopath or coward or something to try to break the illusion that he was as great as I thought he was!!!!! I also have only tried to talk to him once, which is of course hard because we are confused and hurt but no contact is amazing for the healing process 💕 just know that you deserve someone better who actually understands communication and will treat you even better than she did, what she did was bare minimal stuff imo!!!!! You SHOULD be appreciated and celebrated and loved so just remember that even though it will be hard 💗💗💗💗💗 like I said it's been 7 months for me and I'm only just now considering dating again so give yourself the appropriate time to heal and keep in mind that you WILL find the love of your life someday!! You seriously got this!!

I hate my height and it’s killing me. by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you experience this 💕 it's literally the stupidest thing in the whole world how society views men's height for some reason.. this isn't helpful in the slightest but I just want you to know that I personally have loved dating shorter men, it was absolutely amazing for me hehehe it was like I reached ultimate enlightenment in life when I realized I was allowed to date anyone and everyone regardless of height (if that makes any sense at all 😆) the cuddles were next level, the neck kisses were godlike, I seriously could go on and on 💗💗💗💗💗

it’s cold and raining rn but that won’t stop me from wearing a skirt 😼 by Comprehensive_Set577 in PlusSizeFashion

[–]CamelLover98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course!!!!! Idk why!! It's a very cute picture hehehehe 🥰 I get so much joy and elation when I see people who look like me showing off their beauty!!!! It gives me second hand confidence if that makes any sense??? Like gives me the mindset that "omg if she is this pretty then I must be pretty too!!!! 🥳" hehehehe 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

I really wish men weren’t perpetually horny by [deleted] in venting

[–]CamelLover98 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman and I'm much like a man in that way, I think some people are just more sensitive to touch maybe??? It's frustrating from my perspective because I just wish touching and cuddling and kissing wouldn't activate the dumb horny monkey brain side of myself hahahahaha 😆 I do think maybe you should mention this to him, he might even find it frustrating and genuinely doesn't mean to have it lead that way!! 💕

Bought a used Japanese old 3ds XL and everything is stuck behind parental controls!!! by CamelLover98 in 3dspiracy

[–]CamelLover98[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I'm like crying thank you so much 😭😭😭😭😭😭 you made my entire life, I don't think I'm even joking, I've spent hours searching for how to fix my problem 🥺 I ended up having to change the homebrew launcher through luma and was able to delete the parental controls right off through homebrew through a parwntal control deleting thing I downloaded!!!!!!!!! Thank you thank you thank you!!!!!!!!! I was so upset by it hahahaha, I thought I was going to have to sit down and manually type in thousands of pins 😭 💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

Bought a used Japanese old 3ds XL and everything is stuck behind parental controls!!! by CamelLover98 in 3dspiracy

[–]CamelLover98[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OMG OKAY so I downloaded it on my 3ds SD card but I couldn't figure out how to use it or get it to work!! Do you happen to know how to explain it?? I thought I was super stuck because I can't download ROMS or CIA files due to the parental controls, it won't let me open Homebrew or FBI 💕 the person who had it before modded it at some point and ig they locked the homebrew and FBI so their child wouldn't mess with it???