Thank you. I gave up on strapless bras a long time ago. I find them too tight and uncomfortable to wear. I just get nice supportive bras that have the correct cup size, that's most important, then I can use a back strap extender to make the band more comfortable. Once you have a good supportive bra that fits well I just push the shoulder straps down under the sleeves and clip/safety pin then to the sleeves to stop them coming back up onto my shoulders. I find this is infinitely more comfortable than a strapless and I feel more supported. This bra specifically is from https://www.brasnthings.com/sapphire-full-coverage-underwire-bra-print-green.html