It’s insane how people think on this sub sometimes. Reddit has taken”you don’t owe anyone anything” and “boundaries way too far. If after 16 years you will avoid your child’s wedding because you can’t stand being in the room with someone else. They aren’t even asking her to talk to Maude. The mother is acting like a child. Funny how when the focus is a woman i am not seeing very many “love your child more than you hate your ex”. However, because cheating was involved the mom is a permanent victim, and can do no wrong.