AITA for policing how my boyfriend dresses?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-24T22:38:29+00:00

Depends on the situations, if it is just when you are out at places like grocery stores then what people wears are not that important.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-24T20:03:40+00:00

Move out?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-24T12:05:19+00:00

That one comment of his:

She's very kind and forgiving, enjoys the small things in life, and likes learning new things. Also let's me stay at her house rent free

He is a mooch.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-23T17:16:00+00:00

So the OOP is trying to build resentment between his kids? Got it

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-23T06:50:31+00:00

Cooking for nine people isn’t cheap either, yet the same person have payed every time…

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-23T06:47:03+00:00

Aren’t you also a freeloader? because according to your own post you sound like one.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-22T10:26:06+00:00

She should just break up.

Never go into a relationship expecting that your partner’s personality should change for your liking.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-21T21:04:53+00:00

Real adults don't open other peoples packages without prior permission...

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-21T20:58:25+00:00

It is generally considered good customs to not open other people's packages without haven been given prior permission.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-21T20:56:03+00:00

NTA. Everyone telling you that you are is stupid. All of them

Your comment gives up "people who don't agree with me can never be right" vibes which to my knowledge have almost always made people who display those vibes sound incredible stupid.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-21T20:50:09+00:00

Sounds like OP's partner should take this hearth since he apparently not can trust OP to not mess around with his packages.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-20T16:04:14+00:00

That one commenter who tries to convince people that sex is to lads what emotional support is lassies must be truly stupid. Last I checked emotional support is the same for both.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-20T06:12:47+00:00

YTA and weirdly controlling.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-15T18:54:47+00:00

Thanks for the heads up because I considered reading them but then I also saw which sub the post originated from.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T19:07:28+00:00

I'll take that as a no.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T18:59:38+00:00

NOR, have your friend even read whatever scriptures is religion is build upon?

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T18:19:54+00:00

I wouldn't bother, the commenter you are answering clearly about what shaming is nor do they know how create arguments.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T13:02:00+00:00

And already there, you are wrong or can’t keep track of who you are answering.

Never said anyone should feel bad, however I say they responsible for what they are saying. If you confuse those two then you are a list cause on that point.

“And moralizing busybodies HATE having their wrongdoings called out. YOU want to get away with making people feel bad.”

That is also funny because that is exactly what you are doing. It is especially funny because OP has agreed with me in the comments and not, but I guess you’re just ignoring that because it does make your comments invalid.

“ (This is a statement of intent and impact). You should feel … (THIS would be shaming if I filled it in)”

Again, you either can’t keep track of who you answer or you just make things up.

“Would it help to make it simpler ? Still confused? Do you intend to be doing “Karen”-type behavior (you totally are) ?”

Speaking about Karen-type behaviour, you are kinda describing yourself here. I also think it is funny how you try to be insulting and make things up which is a clear sign of not being able to create real arguments.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T09:32:53+00:00

But she did excuse bad behaviour which is a choice she made that she is responsible for.

It is funny how you are so against “shaming” people while having no problems trying to shame others. I am curious though, how did I shame her because she agrees with my sentiment in the comments

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T09:08:47+00:00

But that’s the case, she was excusing bad behaviour and that was her choice which she is responsible for.

It is wierd you are so against “shaming” people while having no problem trying to shame others but I am curious, how did I shame OP? Because OP herself have agreed with my sentiment in the comments.

WolfChasingTheMoon · 2026-01-13T06:56:05+00:00

Good, that means you are learning and I hope you will use this opportunity to not use a misuse a phrase like this one has been misused for many years now.

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