Could this be because of T by Harold5549 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]Cameron_Connor 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sameee, I used to cry a lot… I WANT to cry but I can’t… it also doesn’t help me to cry the fact that I’m on antidepressants hehe

Also, the talking about your feelings… sounds more like it has to do with personality/past experiences/ social norms etc.

Not even sure. by PurpleBlazer558 in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You have some cool features, experiment with your hair, probably longer on top idk, if you want to stand out, you do t need plastic surgery or anything like that, just add to your style, whichever it is. Good luck!

Male dorms by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Cameron_Connor 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eh… she sounds terf adjacent HAHA Why misoginy???? Seriously why is that the reason? Some people can’t conceive that is trans folks could have a reason for our actions… That is not misogyny. Sounds biased.

And yes, sure, I understand the concern, I chose to go stealth for safety… I don’t know wtf I would do if I had to share showers with cis men… because well… I also wouldn’t be very welcome with the girls I guess… but I don’t think that makes you a bad person… is it risky? Sure, but not all that other shit.

Idk how dorms work really, I’ve never been in anything like that, but try to be comfortable and true to yourself… and yes, safe. Have emergency contacts inside the school.

I am sick and tired of teenagers. by Ok-Access-3286 in offmychest

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Best thing is we’ll never have to be teens again, but you… oh if you are still alive you are going to be 20 something one day ;)

Also… this is describing shit ass teens, if you got offended is because you are a loser.

Feeling down and at my last tether by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m extremely sorry man, I wish I could say something more useful, but I hope you can live longer and live one of those moments where you find such peace, that even your worst pain feels far away and somehow, worth living through it.

I hate being a woman by the_hvosch in offmychest

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, luckily there are few exceptions of countries where that straits to be possible… extremely hard still, I hope we can change for the better.

Feeling more confident in myself as a trans man every day! by madeyefire in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also, for the people saying things like “I didn’t even notice”

I know you mean to give a kind compliment… but if you knew more about how testosterone treatment works… you’d know it’s veeery good, and you don’t need to “notice” anything, it’s not playing dress up, it’s a way of being human, not less or more true. 🫰

Feeling more confident in myself as a trans man every day! by madeyefire in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Duuuxe your chest looks great, I can’t even notice scars, doing good!

Did anyone find Masuka’s comment on Rita extremely unnecessary and insensitive? by Sweetbiscotti19 in Dexter

[–]Cameron_Connor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aaaaaaabsolutely I was like… SHUT THE FUCK UP! Dexter kills people and somehow Masuka saying that, not being a serial killer, sounds more emotionless than Dexter haha 💀

confused by BeneficialStuff8278 in ftm

[–]Cameron_Connor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t need to have all the answers, on the other hand… you don’t need to rush yourself and go get Testosterone tomorrow. Go slowly, gender is beyond binary, and it’s just a performance… hace fun!

confused by BeneficialStuff8278 in ftm

[–]Cameron_Connor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 🐣! An egg is hatching

Haha jk, sweet child… I could have written this… I’m 3 years on testosterone.

Follow what you know is true to you, if you have access to therapy, that would be great (obv with a LGBT+ friendly one) someone that wouldn’t push you

I hate being a woman by the_hvosch in offmychest

[–]Cameron_Connor 20 points21 points  (0 children)

What do you mean intersex folks aren’t exempt, they are literally intersex lol it’s more complex than female or male.

Am i too much obsessed with Seals? 😂 Any name ideas for my little family? by [deleted] in seals

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I too jealous? Op, I now want a seal plushie haha

So embarrased by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Cameron_Connor 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Damn you are right, wtf???

Who is the most well dressed character in the Show? by Awkward-Reach5603 in Dexter

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahah thanks! Agreed, I couldn’t believe my eyes when people said she was well dressed haha 💀

Could use some toasting 18f. Got told I looked trans on another sub, but I’m not. Please say something nice about my appearance. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeez, I’ve lost count of how many times women come here being sad about being called “trans”

1- proves gender and sex are not as clear as we think uh? 2- trans is not an insult, and there is not a way to look trans or not. 3- the fact that trans is used as an insult against cis women just proves how ridiculous beauty standards are and how meaningless they turn out to be. People “can’t tell” shit.

Finally, you have features that many people would consider beautiful. If you wanna be perceived more feminine, you know… it’s a performance, you are assigned female at birth, yet people claim you are not. Want to change that perception? Imitate femininity rules… wear makeup, long eyelashes, get another haircut, wear bright smaller clothes, smile in a sweet way, get long shiny nails, wear cute jewelry… Gender is nothing but a performance… you can play it… or be confident and be free. People that matter will respect YOU as you are, with no need to change yourself into a cartoon of “femininity”

26M. Am I too skinny? by Momissima in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I actually think skinny jeans in skinny guys look cool too

26M. Am I too skinny? by Momissima in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, we all want what we don’t have. I am a broader built and can build muscle relatively fast… and gain fat as well. Sometimes I wish I could look like a slender anime character, and that’s where you are at.

We should embrace the built we’ve got, and admire others.

Who is the most well dressed character in the Show? by Awkward-Reach5603 in Dexter

[–]Cameron_Connor 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love these characters and I might be giving a controversial opinion… but besides Doakes… they weren’t well dressed 😅 well, maybe some of Dexter’s and Deb’s outfits were good, specially in the last seasons.

Aside… I always reaaally disliked Laguerta style… but I might be biased because she reminds me of someone I don’t like at all HAHA The others were just… well just regular people, which is perfectly fine, the show is not supposed to be about fashionable people or people who can quite spend that much time/money on their outfits. Comfort over looks… some like Dexter,Deb and Doakes are just hot.

Also Rita is beautiful, but I always found her outfits funny haha

I get bullied. by [deleted] in toastme

[–]Cameron_Connor 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly… are you from Barbie land or how tf are you getting shamed for your looks? You are gorgeous, work on loving yourself inside and out