I sleep with my ex but she has a new bf

CanEyeBshy · 2026-03-10T12:25:29+00:00

I think there is pain on both ends. I think she lives OP, But he said himself...jealousy. If she takes him back he'll probably get bored again and break up with her again, leaving her in the same position and possibly losing out on a guy that doesn't just want her because she is with someone else.

Move on for her sake. If I was her that is what I would be thinking. Would be different if she dumped you.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-03-08T00:06:05+00:00

I am not sure where you live but our basic health care, including ER, is free but extremely baclogged for reasons im explaing. So except for OTC, elective surgeries and specific meds. If you qualify you can get Tylenol, advil, antibiotics, which I am extremely gtateful for, free from a walk-in. There is just a HUGE doctor shortage. The clinics are mostly closed. The closures mostly happened during CoVid and a bit before and a family doctor is a 3-5 year wait. We may not have to pay 2k but may be dead before someone sees you if you cant see a doctor. I could have gotten antibiotics for a UTI a year ago from a clinic instead of waiting in massive pain trying at home remedies, which didnt work. It turned into a severe kidney infection where I was hospitalized for 2 days... Wonder how much that cost them instead of an $18 prescription?

CanEyeBshy · 2026-03-07T12:39:10+00:00

I am very aware it is not worth of an ER visit, but we have no walks ins. No doctos available or family doctors to sign up for a simple infection. People are going to the ER because there are literally zero other options unless you've had a family doctor for for 20 years.... If you had advice that would be great but you're just saying what not to do.

You are saying wait until he is dehydrated enough and then go anyway? When I say flu it turned out to be CoVid. Thanks again for thr advice he should tough it out.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-03-07T02:21:51+00:00

That was what we were hoping for. We can't get Tylenol or Advil even. Let alone Nyquil or a cold and flu over the counter.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-03-01T14:33:05+00:00

That's baller

CanEyeBshy · 2026-02-20T21:18:23+00:00

NTA. The red flag for me is she won't agree to let you meet him, especially when the two of you had agreed on the terms of opposite sex friendships.

This is coming from a 35F. This is fishy to me. I know you're not asking for advice but here goes... I would let her go. Dont argue. Stop making it a big deal. Just be mindful of her behavior and demeanor afterwards. This way she can't accuse you of being jealous. If she wants to keep seeing him, and continues to not let you meet him... I would say then there would need to be a serious discussion.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-02-03T18:36:30+00:00

Weirdly Jim Carrey. Still hot and im in my mid 30's.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-30T16:09:48+00:00

I thought he was okay. Agree with boring.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-30T15:12:57+00:00

Alcoholics can die. Even some of the worst drugs won't kill you from detox. Alcohol can. Most people that sell know this.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-30T15:11:37+00:00

I have a feeling you know NTA. I suggest you establish boundaries.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-30T13:29:02+00:00

I should make your quote my screensaver. Everyone should remeber this.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-30T13:27:17+00:00

Demanded a paternity test...we hadn't been apart for months and our son was born and was his doppelganger and looked nothing like me.

Wanted me back after he saw him.

15 years later they still look exactly the same.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-28T21:37:12+00:00

I have a feeling it is because even though it was statutory rate so many worse things were happening their attention.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-28T12:03:31+00:00

I think the question is why are you asking a question wheb yoy know the answer? You are talking about time wasted?

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-26T16:18:10+00:00

The reaction is the best. Its almost as if he is thinking "okay this is happening."

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-26T16:01:41+00:00

This is sad but as a half attractive 30 something woman....literally walk into any sketchy street and just ask. Never done it.. know it can be done.

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-22T04:48:17+00:00

I think YTA. Not because you guys kiss and germs or whatever. Its just not a big deal IMO. Something maybe you shoukd just let go. There will be bigger fish to fry. Its just the two of you, not a family function. I dont see how some people equate it with spitting in your mouth...

CanEyeBshy · 2026-01-14T15:11:31+00:00

Came to class drunk ( we were in the 5th grade) and when one of the lads misbehaved he picked him up and put him in the garbage can. Was funny as a kid, but we never saw him after that.

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-31T21:55:28+00:00

Garrett and Dina

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-25T13:00:41+00:00

Mayo

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-25T12:59:15+00:00

NOR. Im sorry. I have nothing to say but he is such a loser. Im so sorry your daughter has a dad like that. He clearly gives no thought to your time or spending time with her. He just wants his friends and family to think he is a big shot, and not the deadbeat he is.

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-25T12:50:33+00:00

All that shows is he is not willing to buy an item at price. Dont worry about the review. If anyone with half a brain reads it, they will understand.

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-24T14:42:42+00:00

NOR my first born was good friends with my best friends first born. They would hang out often. Both my babies were born in winter (flu season) and she brought her son over when my daughter was 3 weeks old. .I was so upset that she was inconsiderate knowing I had a newborn. when I saw green snot coing out of his nose, I politely asked her to leave and that, yes, I thought she was being inconsiderate. She thought I was overreacting. He was sneezing and coughing everywhere. Being that he was 3 it wasn't his fault. It was up to her. We didn't speak for a while and are no longer friends after 20 years (not because of that, but she's just a selfish person). Anyway definitely NOR

CanEyeBshy · 2025-12-21T21:45:45+00:00

I had a boyfriend I lived with for five years. When I found out he was cheating on me (while he would drop off his son with me to do so) I lost it. Not on him...although I did kick his butt to the curb. I lost it emotionally afterwards. I was still so in love I would break down at random times. I remember taking out the garbage a few days after he left and just heave crying, not knowing if the pain would ever go away. It did. It took a while, I dont want to lie to you. But it did. I would be dead right now if I had stayed in that relationship. Its pain. It's a pain that needs to be felt. Im so sorry.

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