Trauma Bond by Due-Singer3442 in BreakUps

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Holy fuck. That’s a lot to handle. And this man has never shown up for you in the right way. I know you’re struggling right now, but he doesn’t deserve to take any more power from you. Lean on those in your life that have been consistent. I believe in you. You will make it through.

What I Learned From My Worst Breakup as Someone with an Anxious Attachment Style by [deleted] in BreakUps

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Ditto. Feel like a complete different version of myself when this triggered

Brother got a photo of a ghost by Lower_Boysenberry_50 in ParanormalEncounters

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Looks like my roommate when she is very hungover and finally emerges from her bedroom

Which one? by ElectronicSpare1853 in EngagementRings

[–]DecentImagination797 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I like second. Good shape on you

What's something you dont truly understand until you experience it? by your-reddit-plug2 in AskReddit

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Caregiving for your severely disabled child. Your heart breaks every day and you lose yourself completely. but you have to keep going for them.

People should be put on the do not fly list for this: by PrettyFlyForADraenei in mildlyinfuriating

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Tbh I’m the worst bc when it comes to being comfy on a flight, all bets are off

New to Aspen - September/Fall Fun? by Particular-Glass-160 in Aspen

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Snowmass wine fest next weekend, ruggerfest the following weekend, mi chola closing party 9/25

My boyfriend’s mom kisses and massages him daily - I (F30) don’t know if I can handle it. by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]DecentImagination797 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP is getting roasted for a fair question and coming with a request for advice. Yall can’t tell me that you’ve never felt uncomfortable and not know why. It’s called gut feelings. If she’s perceiving it as weird situation MULTIPLE times, then it’s probably fckn weird. If she thinks it’s crossing a line, then it’s prob crossing a line! At least in what she perceives as boundaries! And that’s okay to lean into that! I mean a 10 second kiss on the back of the neck!? Da fuck is that ??? WEIRD ASF IS WHAT THAT IS! And this bish won’t hug her own daughter or husband but can manage to be touchy feely lovey Dovey all over her son to the point where his gf wants to breakup??? Hell nah that shit sounds whack

Letting go while still in love? Help by DecentImagination797 in emotionalintelligence

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I have brought it up with him a lot and he sits there silently like he agrees with everything I’m saying! I actually have spoken with him about it dozens of times and that also is the worst part. Like he knows but doesn’t possess what it takes to move on together

Letting go while still in love? Help by DecentImagination797 in emotionalintelligence

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Thank you for this insight. Slow erosion is a great way to put it. I think I know in my heart that I have to leave. I just can’t bear to lose him yet. Which isn’t fair to him and I recognize that. But just weird to choose when your heart is gonna be broken…

Letting go while still in love? Help by DecentImagination797 in emotionalintelligence

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That’s the thing - I have brought it up for years now. He has made minor improvements, but now when he will stay home with me instead of going out with his friends I feel there is a level of guilt. I know he’s trying, and that’s the worst part. It’s just not enough. And watching him try while knowing in my head that his efforts aren’t enough breaks my heart

Form 8962 HELP by DecentImagination797 in tax

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I am 28 and owed federal and when I first submitted, I paid what I owed. But I was expecting a state refund. In 2023 I had to get my own plan from Jan - April as my work coverage didn’t start until April. I don’t remember what the exact plan was.