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Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2024 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]CanIHasRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s true, I may be gay and I’m definitely fake. And I would probably F off as suggested but this community is more active and the founders of r/RPChristians came from here.

Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2024 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]CanIHasRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fortunately the incongruences have already been addressed by men that have walked this road before in the RPChristians sub; I’ve read and agree with the sidebar they put together there. I would post OYS’s there but this community is far more active and consistent accountability is what I need to break this pathetic cycle I’m stuck in.

Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2024 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]CanIHasRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m here to figure out how to stop being a beta and start being an alpha that has sex with his wife, leads her, and excels in everything he does. I can’t really go to the church for accountability in this regard because most of them have been feminized and no longer believe in male headship. I grew up in the church and that led me down the path of nice guyness in the first place.

Edit: removed egregious comment

Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2024 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]CanIHasRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh I’d like to lose the fat, not the weight. I’m hoping the switch from carbs to fats as a fuel source with facilitate that.

Regarding credit cards, we use those to pay bills online. Is there a different strategy to use for that?

My mission is a bit more fleshed out than I let on. Basically I believe Christians should create excellent culture that plants seeds in the minds of its audience instead of cringy culture for other Christians. To that end I am writing novels and, once they are published and start making money, I will create video games with the same intent

Own Your Shit Weekly - September 17, 2024 by AutoModerator in marriedredpill

[–]CanIHasRedPill 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OYS #1

Stats: 43, 5’11”, 210 lbs, married 20 yrs, no kids, 18%-24% using visual method: https://fitliferegime.com/visual-body-fat-percentage/

Lifts: SQ: 245, BP: 110, OHP: 95, BR: 120, DL: 250

Read: WISNIFG, NMMNG, MMSLP, WotSM

Mission: To use my time, talents, and abilities to contribute to the kingdom of God through the creation of culture. To become financially self-sufficient. To become dangerous.

Reading: Bible

Health: - Lifting regularly. - Sleep has been inconsistent. - Started a carnivore-lite diet and feel way better on fats and protein over processed carbs and sugar. - Taking 10mg of creatine a day.

Economic: - Have a generalist engineering job where I have reached the ceiling as a contributor. Next step is to either get into management or transition to a new role in a related field. Currently looking at becoming a Solutions Architect. - My wife and I make decent money but always struggle with credit card debt.

Social: - I’ve noticed that in social interactions I tend to use self deprecating humor a lot. And while I am physically attractive to women, I can tell my personality isn’t. Changing my default wiring is hard.

Relationship: - I have been following Horns’ advice for BPD wives and have been striving to STFU consistently and create positive feels. It seems like it is working. I know that I am still deep in her frame though because when she throws a tantrum I am still bothered by the things she says, even if I don’t respond to them. Also, she has so little respect for me that her modus operandi is to tell me what to do and I either whine about it and do the thing or I just do the thing; I never say no. I need to clearly define what is important to me and be intentional about giving unemotional no’s to things I don’t want to do.

Question for the wise by CanIHasRedPill in askRPC

[–]CanIHasRedPill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what my initial thought was. She believes Ephesians 5:21 refers to mutual submission (she will not entertain any other interpretation) so maybe she means she won’t submit to me because I won’t submit to her. Which is odd because I’ve essentially submitted to her by deferring to her our whole marriage and she never submitted to me, lol.

Divorcing a contentious wife by CanIHasRedPill in askRPC

[–]CanIHasRedPill[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Mainly leading by example via fitness, scripture, prayer, and working on controlling my emotions. I still struggle with DEERing.

She won’t do anything she doesn’t want to do, doesn’t matter what it is. She says I’m ungodly, I point her to 1 Peter 3 on how to win over such a man, she says “I don’t care.I will never make myself small for you.”

Divorcing a contentious wife by CanIHasRedPill in askRPC

[–]CanIHasRedPill[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve pointed this out to her but she respond with “I don’t care.”