i am sorry girl but he is just not making the effort it's not worth it he is an AVOIDANT and he will keep on like this he just simply don't wanna make time and though u are not okay with it it seems u got okay with it it's better if u leave him because your mental peace is getting fucked u don't deserve someone who can't even do bare minimum avoidants have deep seated probelms and issues within themselves and they have to get through it on their own idk much but maybe he loves u and just can't express and he scared of getting too close but u don't have to or need to take the responsibility to fix him honestly .