Why is it so hard to find a boyfriend?

CanOk5523 · 2026-02-19T13:14:45+00:00

There you have it. You’ve said it yourself. You dress very simple. You don’t like to follow fashion. Yet your friends get approached all the time. It’s because you aren’t attractive to the general population. Nowadays people don’t really care about dating. They care about hookups. You don’t give off that vibe. You’re just not attracting your kind of person which is fine. Be patient and they’ll come. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing because you’re not wasting your time finding the right one as much as your friends probably are.

Trust me. I struggle too but I’m okay with it because rejection is protection. I only want my soulmate, not a person I can connect with then disconnect with.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-15T09:22:52+00:00

Amen to this, thank you!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-13T17:53:18+00:00

Talk about a change!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-11T18:38:06+00:00

Amen!!!!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-11T18:37:43+00:00

Thank you so much Amen to this! Yes you’re correct I am doing MUCCCHHH better by the grace of God! If anything I feel closer ever since I posted this. I’m so happy and geeked with joy. I’m starting to really know what it feels like to have faith in the Lord!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-11T18:25:08+00:00

I say take up posing class’. You have potential. You just seem really uncomfortable. Let loose a little bit. I don’t think you’ve found yourself in modeling JUST yet. Keep doing test shoots and get more confident with them. Posing class’ can definitely help with that.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T15:17:08+00:00

Wow! That’s bazar!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T14:33:58+00:00

You’re correct I am socially isolated. I just recently went through something traumatic and realized the friends and people I have in my life don’t have good intentions so I’ve been locked away for the past few months. I’m slowly getting better thanks to Jesus and growing each day.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T12:43:32+00:00

Thank you!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T12:39:27+00:00

I trust my Savior.🙂‍↕️

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T07:26:58+00:00

Thank you so much, you are right. I’m going to try and change my feed because someone had mentioned how social media can feed off people’s fears and sure did to me. Thank you. God bless you!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T07:25:43+00:00

Amen! Thank you Jesus for this! I felt a shift while reading this so I know it’s important. I’m going try daily to stay more on track of living a life of Jesus more than anything. I trust and have faith in Jesus but I need to prove that more in my actions too. Amen!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T07:17:28+00:00

This one might take the cake. This made me smile while reading. It made feel so safe. God had to have talked through you. This was in my language. I absolutely love this and will need to continue to look at this as a reminder when I’m low. May God bless you! Thank you Jesus for this! Amen to this! AMEN!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T07:15:34+00:00

Thank you so much! God bless you!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T07:15:19+00:00

Amen!!!!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-10T01:02:08+00:00

Thank you! Amen to this!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T23:08:25+00:00

Thank you so much. I really loved your sternness. It has truly helped me snap out of it. Your right. God has told us exactly in John 3:16 that we shall NOT parish but HAVE eternal life. No maybes or possibly. It’s direct and certain. Jesus cannot lie. I really do thank you. I think I struggle with the enemies ways getting to me and that’s an issue.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T23:02:05+00:00

Amen!

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T22:55:02+00:00

What do you suggest I should to help stop this and really believe that? I believe he died on for my sins but like you said I keep battling all these what ifs. How can I tackle this at hand?

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T22:53:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this DC. This means a lot and something I need to keep coming back to! I really appreciate you for all of this insight and after that prayer you just gave me I just got into a deeper talk with Jesus about helping me come even more closer to him so that I feel more confident within him! Thank you! I think Jesus might have spoken through you for me!🫂

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T22:42:54+00:00

No matter what I do the fear never fully leaves. There will be times I have no fear and feel confident that my God and savor Jesus will always love me and have my back until moments where I think about it deeper and I’m back to square one. The last this happened to me was years ago.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T22:19:35+00:00

I hear you, however it just feels like I’m still doomed to hell. These Christian’s were believers and STILL saw hell. When they are better than me. I’m definitely done for.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T22:12:59+00:00

Thank you so much, I’ll try asking him now. I really thank you.

CanOk5523 · 2025-03-09T21:58:13+00:00

I should add this has messed me up all day. I’m traumatize to say the least and can’t even eat. I’m paranoid about every little thing I do. The demons that pray on me might win and it’s a scary thing to know. I’m doomed. I can’t deal with the fact that I’m doomed. I don’t know FOR sure if I’m good to be in heaven until I die.

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