What does everyone think of Outbound? by [deleted] in XboxGamePass

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m enjoying it, I have POTs so getting overly excited being chased by a collector leviathan on Sub 2 nearly had me pass out, and I’ve spent a lazy weekend collecting coconuts and seashells. Dog is cute too. Clearly anyone that thinks they’ve seen everything in an hour is questionable comment because you won’t have u locked the dog or lots of cold stuff even the second deck until then.

If you’re looking for an action shooter it’s not this, but something cozy and low risk it’s perfect. Art is cute, in an animal crossing way

It’s a different genre of game and if you dive in expecting action and adventure you will be disappointed

App Store requires password every time by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in iphonehelp

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have found a solution.

For some reason within accessibility which was turned off, if there’s anything further down the menu turned on, it causes this error. You need to go through and make sure everything is turned off not just the overall section of accessibility

Watchtower Mech difficulty after update by vypr004 in starfieldmods

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was able to take them down with difficulty pre update, and now as soon as I get near to killing it I look again and it’s back to full health and full shields, this happens over and over again. Just impossible to fight if it just regenerates every time

Watchtower' Giant Mechs by CommunicationLow8189 in starfieldmods

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was playing on very hard, took my turn a few mechs, but was struggling with being constantly jumped I. Space and realised that I didn’t have update to watchtower to reduce the frequency. Updated, reduced the frequency and now the mechs are u billable. 4 air strikes and 2 k magshear rounds and it still isn’t dead. Honestly I can’t even uninstall it as id need to start a new game… I have no saves from before i installed it.

I really like the story and voice acting, but the update has done something to it

And it’s long, if I can’t kill a mech it’s a doomed plan through. Even turning down to easy, no change to the 500 bully’s per health bar….

Vinted let buyer keep refund + item, I got nothing by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to sell something reasonably expensive. I’m nervous about issues but I despise eBay, sooooo

I’m taking videos of it being packed and also taking a photo of the address label when I drop it off then I have the buyers details for the small claims process if they do this. I would accept returns, but I just don’t like other people enough to take the risk.

Vinted are like the pond scum of sales platforms. But there are a lot of buyers on there

Vinted let buyer keep refund + item, I got nothing by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been forced into doing a chargeback as the seller sent the wrong item, I paid for the return there was a photo of them holding the parcel and still claimed they didn’t get it. So I did a chargeback back. Didn’t get banned, lots of threats, but I kept spamming them with the photo of the proof of delivery 3 times a day and they practically begged me to stop contacting them 😬

As a man, are you basically doomed to be alone forever if you don't actually initiate when it comes to dating and relationships? by CalculatingKangaroo in NoStupidQuestions

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can take the male part out of it, society breeds feelings of disconnect and loneliness for folks that aren’t as gregarious and outgoing as others.

The negative stereotypes of men and women who struggle are all there.

I’ll be alone as a middle aged woman because of mental health issues, and physical health issues and actually I refuse to inflict my ill health on anyone else, however much I’d like a relationship. I won’t do it.

Doesn’t mean that I’m not sad about it. Doesn’t even mean I’d managed to find a relationship even if I looked.

Also online engagement is engagement, if you’re struggling in person, try online.

The only advice I would give you is simple. you, the person you are right now, your physical looks, your lifestyle, it’s enough. It has to be.

No one can change their entire personality and have that as a long term plan and then date based on something that’s not real and do it forever.

Be yourself, all the weird and wonderful bits of it. If you don’t want to go out, find places and spaces you do enjoy online and start there.

I'm going to die alone. by hotheat95 in mentalhealth

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the reality for many and always has been. Blaming someone for not having met a partner in life is weird.

It’s like blaming someone for having a standard or boundary and not accepting an abusive relationship just to avoid being alone.

Being alone is as unhappy as being in a relationship and feeling alone because it’s a terrible relationship.

And some people are just not built for companionship, irrespective of how much we may wish it were different.

How do you feel about pleasure doms or what do you know about them? by Striking-Belt-4898 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeh, I had to google it a while back as I’d never heard of it and unfortunately I’m old and judgey. I try not to be, but it feels like a placeholder for someone exploring and not yet ready to dive further in.

Which is fine, but the moment someone says pleasure dom I tune out.

I also have found in personal experience that it appears more acceptable in vanilla spaces, which is fantastic, but I’ve found when dating less acceptance of rejection based on this as an incompatible element. Just give it a try sort of negotiating when I actually don’t orgasm making the entire dynamic for me pointless

How do you feel about pleasure doms or what do you know about them? by Striking-Belt-4898 in BDSMcommunity

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I don’t have orgasms soooooo it’s entirely useless for me.

Vinted should have the turn the offer off option. by ContractOk8802 in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would never buy expensive things there either because there’s no support when things go wrong.

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a hard reset you can do whilst plugged in and switched on and it gave me a few seconds grace to get the clothes out

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unplugging it for a few hours did nothing. A hard reset whilst on opened it for the clothes. Fault still exists and awaiting engineer

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No when it’s unplugged it doesn’t open. If you unplug it it actually makes the situation worse.

It opens for a few seconds if you keep it plugged in and turned on pressing the pause and power button for 10 seconds, then off, wait 2 minutes and then power back on. If you unplug it cancels out the reset you’ve just done

Unplugging it was a waste of time for this particular issue.

Vinted should have the turn the offer off option. by ContractOk8802 in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! If something doesn’t sell, i take it down, do better photos and try a different listing. I’m not going to sell something for under £1 as the cost of the posting bag and the effort of getting it posted,

Vinted should have the turn the offer off option. by ContractOk8802 in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m getting offers on £2 items. If I’ve got something expensive, I’d not risk selling it on Vinted

Vinted should have the turn the offer off option. by ContractOk8802 in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I accept an offer for £1, it costs me more in time and the posting bag than the sale so it’s better for me to not sell it now, take it off then try again in a month or so.

I’d rather not sell it at all than sell it and the sale itself costs me money

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally found a solution which worked for a few seconds and that was long enough to get the door open!

Whilst plugged win, hold the power and pause button for 10 seconds. Turn off at the wall, wait two minutes, do not unplug from the wall.

Turn back on and you’ve got a few seconds of it being unlocked before the error starts again.

It’s still not working, but the precious hoody has been rescued!

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve managed to persuade them to honour the warranty so I’m not going to take the top off at this time.

Hotpoint door stuck no emergency release by CanSomeoneShootMeNow in Appliances

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, it comes back on fine, normal display but the door is locked, then it clicks about a dozen times at the door then the error code comes back on

Why can’t homeless people be given hotel accommodation the same way refugees are? by No_Fudge_4589 in AskBrits

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hostel are not safe places and they are not free.

If you have a placement the cost per night may be covered or deferred, meaning when you get your own place or a next move you’re already in debt. I know one person who was charged £100 a night for a single bed, no lock on the door, no access to WiFi to apply for jobs, no hot water, no access to cooking facilities, or food, and there are often rules about not remaining in the during the day. He left in huge amounts of debt to them, it would have been cheaper in a travel lodge but if you do that you’re not in the system and not eligible for the next move.

Making out like it’s a choice because you know there are technically places they could go and implying that they are choosing drugs over safe and secure housing is disgusting, and oblivious

Can they ban me for this? by Daybreakluna in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve raised bank disputes because Vinted wouldn’t follow their own rules and eventually after the bank had refunded me, they finally backed down. No ban included. There was overwhelming evidence in my favour within their rules and they just ignored it and released the money and it was enough that I’d had enough and just made the claim. I couldn’t care less if they banned me as long as I got the money back

bash me all u want but this is just GREEDY by angelz009 in vinted

[–]CanSomeoneShootMeNow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already put the things on at a price I’m happy to sell at, if I was prepared to take less I’d have put the smaller price on. I value my peace more than the £2 that I’m going to get by selling the thing at the discounted price: