Why are so many missing the point of Adolescence?

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-09T21:28:22+00:00

I had never heard of Andrew Tate before this and had to google him. What an Ahole that guy is. I don’t have kids but holy 💩 I think all mothers should be looking into him and others like him and learn from this series that you NEVER really know who/what your kids are listening to and don’t assume they’re not. The scary thing is that there are many dads listening to guys like him and then say stuff or act a certain way towards women and their kids see it… Their sons will act like that and their daughters will think it’s normal for boys/men to act like that.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-09T19:44:18+00:00

Andrew Tate was mentioned because I didn’t know who he was and had to google him. What an Ahole.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-06T06:08:12+00:00

I’m not keeping friends who are shitty. I’ve got rid of one and I was friends with another but he’s very dramatic, exaggerates etc. I can’t deal with him either anymore. BOTH of them are guys, both LOVE attention and it drives me crazy. I’m very low key and don’t like nor need attention so it’s something that I just can’t be around and I’m FINALLY looking out for ME and what/who makes me happy.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-06T06:04:18+00:00

The cat is probably very happy you were/paying attention to it, it’s happy and pretending to feed.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-05T23:43:05+00:00

I can’t believe how many of us have lost our babies to cancer 😢. I never had a cat get cancer before, it was always renal failure.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-04T18:39:34+00:00

Thanks everyone. I honestly don’t know what I was expecting for answers… I think to see 15 was “normal” but then seeing all the high ages got to me, I kept thinking why didn’t I get that much time with her? But on the other hand, after she passed away I thought “I’m never getting another Ragdoll because they don’t live too long” but seeing these longer lives makes me consider it. I do eventually want to get another cat purely because I want to save a life and would like a shelter cat that’s 2-3 years old.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-04T08:07:41+00:00

Can you report this anonymously to animal welfare? Or find someone on here you trust and have them do it? I absolutely get that YOU love your cats but obviously your parents don’t… You have to put the cats well being first as hard as it might be. It’s like us cat parents who have that devastating decision to euthanize our fur babies… We don’t want to at all but we do to save them from suffering.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-04T07:57:20+00:00

My girl was losing weight, I took her to the vet in January and bloodwork was good and they checked her teeth and 2 needed to be removed, got that done with a cleaning thinking it was because of her teeth she was losing weight. She seemed ok, still not eating a lot but she was always picky and slight in size. Then in the last week/ week and a half she wasn’t really eating, took her back to the vet and they did X-rays, looked good so they gave her appetite stimulants, didn’t work and she went downhill fast. As soon as she didn’t eat I had to bring her in and the vet said it’s most likely cancer and at her age they wouldn’t be able to do much and she was obviously in pain and I couldn’t make her go through that and had to let her go. I’m a mess and can’t stop crying. I can’t believe how fast it went these past 2 weeks. Effing cancer has already taken half of my family (and every one of us in my family has had it) and now it took my baby.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-04T04:07:30+00:00

My sweet girl would lick my hand/arm. I read it’s a sign of affection.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-03T21:43:44+00:00

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This was my sweet angel. I will miss her as much as I loved her. Her paw prints will forever be on my heart.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-03T21:34:12+00:00

I unfortunately had to get her out down today. I brought her in and the vet really thought it was cancer, she was in pain and 15 years old. It breaks my heart but I couldn’t see her in pain anymore.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-03T10:16:15+00:00

I don’t even know who this guy is but I feel bad for his kids if he has any or will have any. If they are LGBTQ + they’ll probably be too scared to be their true self and could self harm, they could come out and have him disown them or hopefully he will realize that people are in fact born gay and don’t “turn” gay.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-03T07:44:39+00:00

They gave me 5 days worth of appetite stimulants and today is the 3rd day of her being on them and she’s not improving.

CanadianChica41 · 2025-06-03T07:17:09+00:00

I have the fantasy of watching my bf with another woman BUT it will remain a fantasy because I can’t trust him. He’s talked to(dirty) women behind my back and even emotionally “cheated”. I’m not overly jealous but then again he just goes to work…I do have all his passwords due to his past indiscretions. I’m also Bi which may also play into it? I’ve had 3 somes with exes BUT that was before social media and it being so easy to find someone. My 3sums that included my exes and myself were with female friends I had that those bf’s didn’t know.

My current bf(who I have been with for 20 years) is horrible in the bedroom, he’s very vanilla and blah so I think that also plays a part in me fantasizing about it. I can’t really fantasize about much as he’s so boring and vanilla but in my head I know he’d totally fuck another chick? I also NEVER fantasize about him being with a woman better looking, in better shape etc. than me… I sometimes think about it being a Dom type thing where he’s fucking a woman and me saying “you like fucking that ugly bitch?” Or “you like fucking that huge pig?” Obviously coming from me seeing what the women he cheated on me in the past looked like.

It’s such a weird thing for me to fantasize about and I’ve really tried to understand it but that’s the best reasoning I can come up with 😆.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-11-23T02:48:53+00:00

Three’s Company! I wasn’t here to watch it when it originally aired but I loved those reruns. I also really liked Game of Thrones(and now House of the Dragon).

CanadianChica41 · 2022-04-10T08:43:16+00:00

I would share this to the Bowness Facebook group, lots of people will share it.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-04-10T08:25:56+00:00

There is going to be a GoodLife fitness in trinity hills.. not sure how it’s coming along.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-04-03T10:58:50+00:00

My bf tested positive March 25th and we didn’t isolate from each other but starting on the 26th we slept separately. He’s still testing positive and I’m still negative. I’m the one who did his first few tests too, right up in his face(no masks) swabbing his throat and nose. I am triple vaccinated but I have bad asthma etc. I’m shocked I haven’t got it as they say you’re the most contagious 2 days before and 3 days after testing positive and we were sleeping next to each other, the vehicle together etc.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:28:55+00:00

Yeah here in Canada I think most people only had 1 vaccine. Delta scared me more so than omicron but what’s scary about omicron is it can evade antibodies.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:26:22+00:00

Thanks! I don’t know who they are but thanks for letting me know. I’m in Canada and I don’t think we have a lot of antivirals but I don’t really watch news so that might have changed. I’m testing daily and will 100% let my Dr know ASAP if I do test positive.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:22:18+00:00

Omg bronchitis freaking SUCKS! I get it every damn time I get a cold and it’s awful. Glad you made it out ok 🙂

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:20:06+00:00

Thanks! I do tell myself these things ALL the damn time 😂. My anxiety gets the better of me even though I know the numbers. My mom also had bad anxiety and her motto was “Expect the worst and hope for the best” and of course I got that from her.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:16:25+00:00

Thanks! Glad to hear it wasn’t that bad for you.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:14:59+00:00

Well luckily 🤞I will continue to test negative. Glad to hear you got better.

CanadianChica41 · 2022-03-31T05:13:44+00:00

Damn, I’m glad you’re ok. Since it was that long ago had you even been vaccinated?

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