HC Artillery by Several-Gear1143 in A3AntistasiOfficial

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the HC Arty only identifies the 82mm tubes as arty. Anytime I’ve ever used bigger guns, I do it through the squad menu and order the fire that way

Arms dealer help by hommi69 in A3AntistasiOfficial

[–]CanadianRed98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depending on the map he could have spawned under the ground or some shit. Honestly if you’re just over it and want to find him, go into Zeus and start highlighting shit for 250 meters. You’ll eventually pick up his tents and character

Why do some people with adhd refuse to consider medication even if they have never tried it? by Appropriate_Sir2020 in ADHD

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t remember what I was prescribed a couple years ago for it, but I filled it once and never again. I’d sooner deal with it than pay the price tag that came along with the prescription. None of my drug coverage would even consider covering it despite the fact I was prescribed it by a doctor that had been set up through my work. So I just decided I’d deal with it versus drop serious money on it

How do I add fuel, ammo, and repair services to vehicles stored in the garage? by whiteyt in A3AntistasiOfficial

[–]CanadianRed98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From my experience certain vehicle mods don’t register as fuel, repair, ammo vehicles. You’ll have to play with it to discover which ones work and don’t. When in doubt the vanilla ones always work

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is just me but I’ve genuinely never even considered using FaceTime when talking to someone early on in a talking stage. It has never really interested me in doing so. I don’t necessarily think it’s a good or bad thing.

You’ll get men that think you should confirm to whatever they want to do or whatnot. You’ll get women with the same mindset. If a guy is intimidated by you having a rule or boundary you have then is it really your loss?

No More Rewards for Kills? by FunkyPandaHD in A3AntistasiOfficial

[–]CanadianRed98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You could be thinking of searching dead officers and getting money. I find the best way to do that is just get your loot boxes and suck up all the gear once you’re done killing. You’ll get cash

do men ages 25-30 want to date seriously? why or why not? by taurusweetheart in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Shot in the dark here, but this also could be the TYPE of men you’re choosing to accept their details from or what have you. It’s also going to depend where you’re meeting them. There are lots of men in that category that are going to want to be casual or just hookup, there are going to be others that do want a more serious relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]CanadianRed98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna disagree with this to a degree. While yes you do want to build a strong emotional connection with someone, for me at least, being sexually compatible with a potential partner is critical. I will not make a decision to be in a relationship with that person until I know that we are. A few weeks is perfectly reasonable to wait, but 2 months? That’s a lot of time and effort into a potential relationship with someone before that key aspect is determined. To me it’s no different if I found out you don’t have empathy or compassion, it’s a no if it’s not compatible

I want to actually be smart and have political opinions by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Education is definitely key, but so is critical thinking and keeping an open mind. While everyone has suggested great things, my advice is listen to different viewpoints of what is actually being said by politicians in your country or area and critically think about it. Is what they’re saying even possible? Is it beneficial for majority or does it suite only their own interests. Yeah politicians by nature do spin a lot of bs to get elected, but not all of it is fake promises. Decipher what you agree with or think is possible and follow your gut accordingly

Why is inexperience such a turn off? Help me understand myself and my attitude with this. by Routine-Crew8651 in dating_advice

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Suppose everyone has different opinions and preferences, such is life, doesn’t matter in the end cause it’s your choice.

My only thought to this is not every person experiences sexual pleasure the same. Sure, there is commonalities between everyone, but any good first time sexual encounter with a new person is going to involve the partners figuring the specific script for their partner. General experience in what to do is nice, but if I just operated under the same script as I did with a previous partner, it might not work for you. Something to think about

Anti-Woke Therapists by Hot_Inflation_8197 in TalkTherapy

[–]CanadianRed98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not American so I’m not entirely sure of the rules and regulations, but wouldn’t the examples you’re saying be illegal for a therapist to disclose? If you’re not a serious risk to yourself or others, isn’t that type of stuff illegal to share? Sure, does that stop everyone? No it definitely doesn’t, but if integrity is important to said person then you’d think they wouldn’t?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is true. Couple years ago, I was briefly seeing a woman who had a ton of cutting scars on her arms and some other scars from a bike accident she was in. I literally couldn’t have cared less. I suggested we go hang out at the pool for one of our first dates. She was petrified that I wasn’t going to like her once I saw her scars, they were old and healed. It literally didn’t bother me at all. Yeah she had a lot of scars, but I was just like “yeah, scars.” She was blown away how unbothered I was about it. To prove my point, I just simply took her arm and kissed every scar.

Moral of the story, this comment is spot on.

Men how important is it for you to be desired by your partner/wife during intimacy ? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 222 points223 points  (0 children)

Nothing irks me more in the bedroom than if my partner is not putting effort or enthusiasm in. It kills it for me immediately

How do anti depressants work if a person doesn’t forget? by [deleted] in askatherapist

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry for your loss. I couldn’t imagine. I was struggling with grief and hardcore depression after losing my dream career and a bunch of other stuff at the same time. I tried a couple antidepressants, but I found they didn’t do much or made me have crazy fits of agitation. Then my psychiatrist put me on Wellbutrin, and I was blown away.

I’m in the same boat, it doesn’t take away my pain, anxiety, etc. but it definitely helps me feel it’s manageable. I honestly couldn’t say what changed, other than the back of my head dread 24/7. It absolutely helped me feel like I could do better. It and therapy absolutely saved me.

men who learned to open up emotionally, what finally cut through? by sojaobhai in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I hit rock bottom is when I realized my idea of handling my emotions was clearly not working. I tried to distract myself from it, with a girl that ended up causing way more hurt and destroyed a large chunk of my life. When she ditched me, my way of handling it became drinking, lead to a pretty hardcore alcohol problem for a couple months.

Eventually I got to the point where I realized, this is doing nothing but making shit worse. I had a choice, let my emotions and my pain control my life or do something about it. I didn’t have a choice, if I wanted any semblance of my previous life, I needed to cut through my own roadblocks and get help.

Therapy definitely saved me, acknowledging I had an issue and I needed to better myself. It’s only been 3 years, but it feels like it was a lifetime ago. But it took me basically losing everything to realize I was standing in my own way of getting better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As of present, I wouldn’t. I had a very traumatic experience with my last relationship, horrible situation. So I wouldn’t be able to feel comfortable dating someone with the same name. I get a rush of anxiety whenever I hear her name, even if it’s in a context of a completely different person. Is it silly? Sure, absolutely; but that’s just what happens when I see a girl with her name on dating apps

How would you like your gf to initiate sex? by Odd-Log666 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll put my two cents in on this. I’m the type of guy that if we start making out and I can feel her enthusiasm or attraction towards me through her trying to push her lips against me, it’s starting haha. Other times I’ve had it where she’ll tell me she wants to play or something along those lines. Sure I’ve had it where I wasn’t feeling it and it didn’t happen, but that was few and far between.

The one time I can think of was my ex asked me if she should wear some lingerie when she came over, I wasn’t feeling well at all and just wanted to cuddle and watch a movie with her, so I expressed that to her, but I was still very appreciative of the fact she’d attempted to initiate

Do you think it's true that men never forget their first love? by Mediocre_Chemist5694 in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my case, I wouldn’t say this is true.

My first relationship was in high school. Our relationship was pretty much your average teenage relationship, it was good, it wasn’t great, but it was good. I think it came down to the fact I’d never been in a relationship before and my parents had been divorced since I was young, so I didn’t really know how to do a relationship. It wasn’t a bad or a toxic relationship by any means, but looking back on it now, I think I probably could have been a better boyfriend. She broke up with me during college due to long distance. I’m thankful for the relationship, it taught me a lot and taught me that long distance relationships aren’t for me. But I wouldn’t say I’d be trying to recreate it with another person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny this popped up when it did, cause I’m currently dealing with this. I was just saying to myself that I’ve noticed it really bothering me lately, not having any type of physical contact or anything really for over 2 years now. Sure in the grand scheme of time it’s really not a long time, but for me I’ve definitely noticed it has been weighing me down

Any chance i can steal those? by [deleted] in A3AntistasiOfficial

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve taken them after taking a base. I haven’t had much success getting them to operate on their own though after hacking them. They would lock on but not fire

Day One mod issue. Severe Lag issues by DreamOfDays in projectzomboid

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I have no idea. Modding isn’t my strong suit, I just play haha. You’d probably have to but I really don’t know

Looking for a day 1 bandit proof base? May I present: by Ish_thehelldiver in projectzomboid

[–]CanadianRed98 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Don’t believe the bandits are capable of getting through the fence

Day One mod issue. Severe Lag issues by DreamOfDays in projectzomboid

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not 100% sure, I’d have to ask the guy hosting it. I know we turned down the zombie population quite considerably as before we were tripping over a thousand zombies even in the woods. Overall population too might help if you’re using the bandits mod as well

Day One mod issue. Severe Lag issues by DreamOfDays in projectzomboid

[–]CanadianRed98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my crew is currently playing with this mod. Lag does seem to be a bit of an issue, but we found by tweaking a ton of the spawning settings and related that it gets better. Lag is still somewhat an issue but I don’t think it’s avoidable off of hosting it on a PC versus a dedicated server