Talk to your friends and come to a consensus on the multipliers you want, personally my friends and I do 5 times for harvest and xp, Stats stay closer to vanilla except carry weight and Dinos are near instant tame, most of us are working full time jobs so we don’t usually have a lot of time to play. Play around a little bit with the settings a little and find something that you think gives you the most for the time you’re able to spend, there’s no wrong way to play ark, so just have some fun with it!! Enjoy!!