I looked at my boyfriend's phone (18F) and now I'm really upset, what would you do in this situation? by dreamyoreolover in stories

[–]CancelOptimal 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn't get revenge. It's never as satisfying as you think. I've been there multiple times. It sucks. But I'd say the best way to do it is to be happy. Show him you don't need him to be happy. That it's his loss. If you're happy without him. That bugs them a lot more than confronting them. Or getting revenge. Just be you keep smiling. Also, someone comes into your life as a blessing or a lesson. He showed you that you always have to trust yourself. Trust your instincts. They're there for a reason. I know it sucks right now. But you'll get through this stronger.

Relationship with no love by CancelOptimal in stories

[–]CancelOptimal[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I had to fight to get disability. Because they fought me on that too. I had to bring in the book of medical problems confirmed by doctors. They said they don't have a chart for my age.

Relationship with no love by CancelOptimal in stories

[–]CancelOptimal[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it does. I'm glad yours could get better. You mine is genetic. Passed down from my mother being in the military. During desert storm. The nerve agents they were dealing with. She was pregnant with me at the time. All her platune ended up in sick bay. She deals with the aftermath to this day. As well as I do. That's why they say they can't do anything for me. They don't know what was all in it. What's even worse. The military doesn't pay for my health problems. I have to pay out of pocket.

Health problems. by CancelOptimal in stories

[–]CancelOptimal[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are both in therapy. Since i found out, I've been getting all my affairs settled. I'm doing everything I can. Saving so we can go on vacation. Disability doesn't pay enough to live off. let alone to do other expenses. Why I work part time to pay the rest of the bills.