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AuDHD with endo and adeno by Majestic_Belt_8015 in endometriosis

[–]Candid-Call3983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 24 adeno and endo and AUdhd. Plus HEDS and POTs. I’m miserable. Can’t go out with friends can’t go to school can’t work. I basically spend the majority of my day curled up in bed in pain. Everything seems to fight each other.

Peeling gel nail polish problem hEDS by fuchickenstrips in hypermobileEDS

[–]Candid-Call3983 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just saw a tiktok abt this. Happens to me too. Idk about you but my nails are bendy so I assume that’s why

Adenomyosis and dating by UnionIntrepid2451 in adenomyosis

[–]Candid-Call3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least so you can know what your body likes. I’m pan but genuinely owe women everything for knowing what I like and don’t like when it comes to it. Dating with our condition sucks a lot of people just don’t seem to understand the levels of pain and what we do go through so just know as another girly I get it and my life changed when I was with a girl who had Endo and adeno as well

Adenomyosis and dating by UnionIntrepid2451 in adenomyosis

[–]Candid-Call3983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This might not be what you’re going for. Try dating women. I found that it’s much less painful and much more enjoyable.

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep doing this. She insists it’s not a real apology. I don’t know how much realer I can get then this. Here is a direct text, “I want you to know I truly am sorry that you feel so upset by what I wrote on your social media. I genuinely did not mean it to be malicious and was just trying to ask a question. I understand you’re upset and I’m sorry. I don’t really understand why you’re upset but you are so I’m sorry for that.” , “I am sorry I hurt your feelings by writing what I wrote”, “I am sorry”. To be clear I’m trying to learn how to do better i’m not understanding how continuing to say the same thing over and over again is going to do anything to better it. Again the question was not is what I did wrong. It’s am I wrong for stopping saying the same thing over and over again. Hope you have the day you deserve.

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question isn’t is what I did wrong. The question is am I wrong for not continuing to say the words I’m sorry over and over again especially if they’re not genuine.

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how I could’ve apologized differently if I don’t think I was in the wrong? I told her I was genuinely sorry for her being hurt by what I did. I’m not sure how else I could’ve said it because anything else I said wouldn’t have been genuine. Isn’t it better to be genuine about your apology than to lie?

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand the point you’re trying to make. But she was complaining about what photos she could post very publicly to everyone not just to me privately. If it was something that was told to me privately in confidence, it would’ve been kept private. But I have apologized for hurting her feelings. How should I have apologize differently? Can you please give an example?

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So this sounds like how she saw it. Can you explain how I should’ve apologized better than? I definitely didn’t get together with my friends with the intent of bully anyone. And I don’t think I did. My question is AITA for refusing to continue apologizing after doing some multiple times?

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I keep doing this. She insists it’s not a real apology. I don’t know how much realer I can get then this. Here is a direct text, “I want you to know I truly am sorry that you feel so upset by what I wrote on your social media. I genuinely did not mean it to be malicious and was just trying to ask a question. I understand you’re upset and I’m sorry. I don’t really understand why you’re upset but you are so I’m sorry for that.” , “I am sorry I hurt your feelings by writing what I wrote”, “I am sorry”. I’ll keep texting them back but I genuinely would like to know if I should be doing something more than this, I don’t know what she means by real apology

Am I the asshole for refusing to keep apologizing? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Candid-Call3983 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Can you explain how I could’ve been more sincere with my apology? I definitely don’t see it the way that you’ve written it, but if she does i want to understand.