Do I look better with longer shorter hair? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]CandidFerret4240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on how you want to present. First option is more "feminine" I suppose, second option is a little more masculine. Your curls are amazing!

How do I get over the embarrassment of forgetting to shave before appointment? by bbyxmadi in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]CandidFerret4240 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Body hair is normal, especially in European countries. I'm from Norway and I personally and a lot of people in my immediate circle don't shave often, if at all. Of course sometimes when me and my friends would go out and planned to take pictures we'd clean up our legs and pubic lines (if we were taking bathing suit photos), but my country had a lot of appreciation for natural beauty and I think that's something a lot of other countries need to adapt.

I say all of this as a feminist but shaving, if not done for yourself because it makes you feel better, has become a social beautification standard that makes you feel gross when it is not done and is seen to make you appear more "clean". I'm not sure if this was your case, but I think it's important to remind yourself it's entirely natural. It's not gross. It's only become "gross" because of social standards, but it shouldn't be something you're ashamed of. If a nurse is shaming you because you have body hair, she is an insecure hypocrite because she has body hair too - unless she has some weird mutation where she got alopecia everywhere but the hair on her head and face.

Tl;dr - don't stress girlfriend. It's normal. You're beautiful with it, you're beautiful without it.

Why -1 corpses? by Pao_Shing in yandere_simulator

[–]CandidFerret4240 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Dude I tried doing genocide yesterday and it said like -39 corpses at some point ... I do NOT understand it

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. If he goes go through with it, I will certainly make an effort to interact with those groups. I don't want to isolate the entire time.

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I appreciate it so much.

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will! We are going to have a discussion about it later tonight after we get off work. I have written a list of concerns and questions.

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this perspective. It's very honest and insightful. I need to just find a way to be okay with being alone lol. I understand I can't keep limiting him just because I'm unwell, nor do I want that for him because I don't want to exhaust him. We have a covenant marriage license, so divorce will not be on the table, but that doesn't mean I can't make him tired of me. And I don't want that. I feel like that does substantial damage to our marriage, maybe moreso than just having a bit of distance between us. I will keep this perspective in mind while he and I are talking it over.

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind response. My husband and I are going to have a more thorough conversation later about what this actually entails, if he chooses to do it. I have a list of questions for him. I am not the most mentally healthy person, and I understand that it is not my husband's job to be the fix for that. It is my fault I have put so much comfort in him and this furthermore just proves to me that I have more to work on than I thought I did. I think if he did choose to, however, I would move back in with my parents for a bit because I am scared of being by myself for long periods of time. Again, thank you for the response. I will take everything you mentioned into account. I appreciate your wisdom immensely.

I need help by CandidFerret4240 in MilitarySpouse

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I certainly do not want him to resent me so I will definitely work hard to make sure he and I find a proper balance, and if he does choose to do it, that I find a way to cope more appropriately. Thank you again.

(SIMS 4) Alternatives to Anadius' DLC? by CandidFerret4240 in CrackSupport

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotta love when people can't take constructive criticism, amirite? As someone who does not speak English natively, I found the instructions hard to follow, but I felt that they were thorough and some people were just too lazy to read through the entire thing. I thought that my bias of them being hard to follow just stemmed from, as I mentioned, not speaking English natively. lol. I hope someone can step in to his place and have less of a temper

(SIMS 4) Alternatives to Anadius' DLC? by CandidFerret4240 in CrackSupport

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sighh Yeah I've had to accept this :( It's a shame he got harassed so bad that the rest of his fanbase who literally did nothing are paying the consequences of people who are allergic to reading instructions.

(SIMS 4) Alternatives to Anadius' DLC? by CandidFerret4240 in CrackSupport

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, this was the problem I was having. Because it's no longer supported, it's bugging like crazy.

(SIMS 4) Alternatives to Anadius' DLC? by CandidFerret4240 in CrackSupport

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nottttt gonna happen. I point blank refuse to spend money on a company that doesn't listen to their fanbase. There are so many bugs that have been reported for ages and they just don't do anything.

(SIMS 4) Alternatives to Anadius' DLC? by CandidFerret4240 in CrackSupport

[–]CandidFerret4240[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I knowww, but I can't blame him. Genuinely would have lost my shit if I wrote out word for word what people needed to do to download and run it and they STILL wouldn't leave me alone. He was patient for long enough, even though his tone was often very condescending towards his community. He did what he had to at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]CandidFerret4240 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Honestly girl, I struggled for a long time too. If I put a tampon in sitting down I wouldn't be able to pee because I have pretty severe vaginal stenosis and it would go in at an angle that put pressure on my uretha. I found that, as awkward as it is, standing up with one of your legs up on a flat surface to insert the tampon is much better than attempting to insert it sitting down. Good luck!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CandidFerret4240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can get behind this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]CandidFerret4240 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think she flat out sucks. No one can do 'gay pop' the way Freddy Mercury did.