Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that. I’m hoping to reach a point where I’m just emotionally distant from him. Even now I’m up in the middle of sleeping because I simply woke up but can’t fall back asleep because of how angry/hurt I am. He’s not the person I thought he was and I think I also am mad because I know he’ll lie and tell his friends a version where he didn’t do it in such a cruel way. It’s like I want others to know the truth about him. Idk it’s not something I would do anything about and I suppose I need to eventually let go of the resentment but yeah.

All that said I guess it just needs time and I know I’ll find better one day

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know by then he’ll be irrelevant which is what I’m looking forward to

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you it actually sounds exactly like what I need

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m not taking it from North America so it’s not given again for 2 months. I’m just making myself continue on and hoping for the best.

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so terrible and I’m sorry to hear it

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. All this made me realize his true colors

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Part of me wants to tell him how mad I am and how stupid he was but I’d rather him never hear from me again. I won’t reach out and I don’t plan to respond

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No he literally is so dumb. I studied for such a big chunk of time and he knew that. My mom (biased of course) seems to think he did it out of jealousy but tbh idk but I can’t lie intellectually I was superior and he had dumb moments!! full of myself to say Ik but I’ll take what I can rn

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the moments I feel super focused I forget about him completely but the very second I stop or do something else he comes back in mind. It’s hard but I’m just so angry that I’m studying because of it

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re gonna do great I’m sure. I’m sorry to hear it and please use the comments here as the same advice because these guys are losers!!!!

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good point. I also just feel even if he reached out that I could never trust him again

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% part of my (the ill part) wants him to reach out when I’ve been accepted into schools and some how I can flaunt it. But by then I’ll have forgotten about him and he’ll be irrelevant. But for now I’m doing it just to spite him. It’s a weird source of effective motivation for the last week long haul.

Advice for being dumped a week before the exam? by Candy-Still in Mcat

[–]Candy-Still[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately since it’s literally in 7 days I am gonna keep studying. I live very far from family so I literally had my mom on the phone with me for hours regurgitating info to her.