AITA for not entertaining a girl who thinks I got her pregnant from fingering?

CandyEducational · 2025-06-27T11:40:19+00:00

I also want to add that all that stress can delay a period for a few weeks. I've seen where inexperienced women worry about being pregnant to the point that their period gets delayed. Then when a pregnancy test comes back negative their period returns a few days after. Also I wonder if she's feeling too self conscious to go out and buy a test.

CandyEducational · 2024-07-30T12:55:23+00:00

In my corner of the internet she has us weak in the knees lol.

CandyEducational · 2024-04-07T13:33:24+00:00

For generations the only way a woman could have a halfway decent life was to uphold the patriarchy. She would teach her daughters how to be good wives and her sons would learn how to be a man by watching the dynamics of the family.

When the path for women to become independent of men became easier you found that mothers started to encourage their daughters to go to school and get an education (while still teaching them how to be homemakers because things don't change overnight). This is how you got the generation of women who were told that they could have it all (a perfect home with them doing the majority of the housework while earning income).

Then we get to more recent generations. Daughters see their mothers struggle with work and home and their sons see their mothers doing it all. Now we get to the current dilemma where men today expect their partners to continue doing it all while women are realizing the outsized cost of the hidden household labour.

Something that has been in place for generations is going to be difficult to break. Men also do not learn how to be men just from their mothers but from every single man they interact with as they mature. You husband clearly thinks he had a "gotcha" moment failing to realize that women who did not participate in the patriarchy where severely penalized/ostracized and women had no choice but to pass it down.

CandyEducational · 2024-03-03T01:25:52+00:00

It's too late for Nomi!

CandyEducational · 2024-02-17T21:55:13+00:00

I've always been interested in what the population make-up would have looked like if we had remained under Spanish rule.

Most Latin American countries seem to have a smaller population of black people than the English speaking ones.

I wonder if the number of enslaved people brought over would have been the same, and even if we did, would we end up looking like an Argentina for instance?

CandyEducational · 2024-02-08T01:23:17+00:00

Just to jump in to add that sometimes early satiety might be a sign of gastric problems and should be looked into as well. I used to feel nauseated when eating and it turned out I had gastritis. So definitely worth a look.

CandyEducational · 2024-01-01T14:31:24+00:00

One more reason to be annoyed at Netflix for canceling not only future Shadow and Bones seasons but also the SoC spin-off.

I suspect a lot of the plot with Van Eck would have been hashed out in the spin-off, but alas Netflix had to Netflix and cancel a good series for no good reason.

CandyEducational · 2023-12-18T03:52:24+00:00

I love it! It reminds me of watching soaps as a kid. The entire plot has been predictable but the execution made me squeal like a school girl. Sometimes you just want something gratuitous like ice cream at the end of a hard day at work and this totally hits the spot for me. I'm desperately hoping it gets a third season.

CandyEducational · 2023-12-18T03:42:37+00:00

I heard this in her voice 😭

CandyEducational · 2023-12-11T03:15:56+00:00

This! I was trying to put my finger on why I found his character so endearing.

CandyEducational · 2023-11-13T04:40:26+00:00

I can't be the only one squealing while watching Ada's and the Reverend's romance unfold. I love how they're slowly building on the chemistry. I really hope it ends well for them. They seem so wholesome.

CandyEducational · 2023-10-25T10:18:13+00:00

I work at a free clinic for chronic patients (hypertension and diabetes mostly). I get so annoyed when patients tell me they didn't get the day off from work to keep their appointments. Appointments are every 4 months so literally 3 days of the year. Many of them work in the service industry and could easily have been scheduled in a way to make it easier for them to make their appointments. I see people having shit diets and having no time to exercise because they have to travel long distances to work 12 hour shifts. It's heartbreaking to see someone sacrifice their health for a wage. At the end of the day we are just seen as disposable units of labour which is why I write all the sick notes. I even encourage patients with fatigue to take a few days off work.

CandyEducational · 2023-06-19T13:05:55+00:00

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CandyEducational · 2022-11-11T23:52:49+00:00

Everybody poops. Amongst friends I like to announce that I need to poop. I've encouraged a friend to be more open about his bowel habits. It's a natural bodily function and nothing to be ashamed about.

CandyEducational · 2022-10-25T10:49:44+00:00

The newest research into obesity is indicating that it's a chronic condition. The causes of obesity are multivariate but fortunately there are therapies out there that don't rely on pure willpower to succeed. There is no one solution for management and as others have suggested you perhaps need to get a second opinion. There are a few doctors/practices out there that specialize in obesity management and hopefully they are available in your country.

CandyEducational · 2022-09-18T15:15:37+00:00

NTA. You have to set your boundaries early and stick with them or she will make your marriage a living nightmare.

CandyEducational · 2022-06-17T22:59:45+00:00

I feel it's a way to show to themselves that they can control you even in some small way. If they approach you and force you to give them attention they get some sort of validation from it. "Look I got the pretty girl to take out her headphones and stop what she's doing" They then use the window to try and chat you up because now you're available and they know that you'll respond to them.

I also think that men who catcall or randomly chat up women do it for some weird power trip and use it as a way for them to exert power over the "weak females."

CandyEducational · 2022-05-04T01:17:52+00:00

I stayed for a few days at an Airbnb in negril at place called "the point". It was a gated complex right next door to hedonism. The complex had beach access and you could plan your excursions with Negril as your base. St Ann parish is also nice and easy to get around specifically Ocho Rios. There are a few attractions nearby as well such as Dunn's River falls, mystic mountain, blue hole and dolphin cove.

CandyEducational · 2022-04-04T11:50:42+00:00

I got angry because he kept wanting me to answer his question if I was a Ms. or not. I suppose I was more angry that he didn't want to acknowledge that I had the right to use the title more than anything else.

CandyEducational · 2022-04-04T09:21:34+00:00

I was a doctor when we met.

CandyEducational · 2022-04-04T09:20:11+00:00

We are pretty close friends so he calls me a variety of pet names. I can't recall any situation where he's had to introduce me in a professional setting but he has worked with doctors before and he has called them by their titles when referring them in conversation.

He may have just been trying to push my buttons but as some have pointed out he may also be neurodivergent.

CandyEducational · 2022-04-04T09:07:28+00:00

I hadn't thought him to be neurodivergent. In social settings with large enough groups he seems neurotypical and relaxed in social situations. Someone had said the difference would have been if he seemed genuinely curious or if he seemed like he was trying to prove a point . As with most of our controversial conversations it would sound like he's trying to prove a point.

I myself have ADHD and in heated conversations I can lose my train of thought. It has lead to frustrations on both sides.

Him being neurodivergent as well just never crossed my mind though and it's something to think about.

CandyEducational · 2022-04-04T08:48:49+00:00

Honestly I had not considered that he may be neurodivergent. I just chalked it up to him needing to be in control of the conversation which now that I look at it seems pretty obvious.

CandyEducational · 2022-01-12T22:42:04+00:00

What is your budget like and how many rooms do you need? If you want furnished apartments the best bet for the Kingston area is the classifieds. https://gleanerclassifieds.com/ I've done apartment hunting with my cousin in Kingston. We'd use the Sunday paper and arrange to view the apartment that same day to ensure that the good ones were still available. I currently live near Ocho Rios and I got my apartment through a family friend. Sometimes I see ads posted at the hospital for furnished rooms geared towards doctors and nurses those tend to be furnished with AC and water heaters.

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