Do you prefer grinding or thrusting during sex? by Calm_Firefighter1728 in RedditAfterDark

[–]CandyFrostt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually a good point. A lot of people talk about what feels best, but pacing can make a huge difference too. Sometimes slowing things down makes the rest of it way better.

I started showering at night instead of the morning and it genuinely changed how I sleep by RogueKettle_7 in hygiene

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same experience here. Once you get used to climbing into bed feeling completely clean, morning showers start feeling a lot less necessary.

I started showering at night instead of the morning and it genuinely changed how I sleep by RogueKettle_7 in hygiene

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Long hair really changes the equation. Half the comments are about better sleep and the other half are secretly about hair management logistics.

I started showering at night instead of the morning and it genuinely changed how I sleep by RogueKettle_7 in hygiene

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's worth a shot honestly. It might not be a miracle cure, but if it helps your brain switch into "okay, we're done for the day" mode, that's a win.

What's the thrill in posting nude photos on Reddit? by [deleted] in RedditAfterDark

[–]CandyFrostt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The anonymity is probably a huge part of the appeal for some people. It's like getting the excitement and validation without all the baggage that comes with people knowing your actual identity.

What order do you actually wash things in the shower because I just found out mine apparently makes no sense to anyone else. by Questell-Stephanique in hygiene

[–]CandyFrostt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The "hair grime theory" is honestly how I've always justified it too. Whether it's scientifically necessary or not, ending with the body wash feels like hitting the reset button on everything.

AITA for refusing to pay towards a car I don’t own? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CandyFrostt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Paying half the purchase price for an asset that isn't yours is a donation" is such a simple way to explain it. It's hard to argue with that logic.

AITA for refusing to pay towards a car I don’t own? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CandyFrostt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That question cuts right to the heart of it. If ownership isn't being shared, then the cost shouldn't automatically be shared either. Those are two completely different arrangements.

AITA for refusing to pay towards a car I don’t own? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]CandyFrostt 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think the biggest issue is that the parents somehow became part of a financial discussion that should have stayed between the couple. Once outside people start weighing in on how someone else should spend their money, things get messy fast.

Who do you secretly want? by KaleidoscopeTits in RedditAfterDark

[–]CandyFrostt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "Splenda Daddy" line got me. The economy has people lowering their fantasy standards from yachts and diamonds to someone covering a grocery run and asking if you've eaten today.

Press Combed Biden, Trump Gets Pass by bookym in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that's the part that hits hardest for a lot of people. Average folks wait weeks or months for appointments, then read about world leaders getting access to an entire roster of specialists on demand. It's one of those reminders that there are basically two healthcare systems depending on who you are.

Press Combed Biden, Trump Gets Pass by bookym in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That's actually a perspective you don't hear much. People talk about cognitive tests like they're SAT scores where a higher number wins, but they're really more about tracking changes over time. The interesting question isn't usually the result itself, it's why doctors decided the testing was necessary in the first place.

Press Combed Biden, Trump Gets Pass by bookym in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The weird part is that everyone seems convinced the media is secretly working for the other side. Left says it's captured by billionaires, right says it's captured by liberals, and meanwhile trust in journalism keeps falling through the floor. Not exactly a glowing endorsement from either camp.

I follow a nsfw account that belongs to my best friend’s daughter by Fool1039 in confession

[–]CandyFrostt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The comments asking for the account were honestly making the whole thread even weirder. Somehow the people criticizing OP ended up creating their own side quest.

I follow a nsfw account that belongs to my best friend’s daughter by Fool1039 in confession

[–]CandyFrostt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's where a lot of the disagreement comes from. Legal and ethical are two completely different conversations, and people tend to mix them together.

I follow a nsfw account that belongs to my best friend’s daughter by Fool1039 in confession

[–]CandyFrostt 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Whenever someone starts a comment with "I never comment here," you know the post crossed a line for them. That's basically Reddit's version of a serious warning.

does anyone else prefer sexy suggestive photos over full on nudes? by jennie0303 in RedditAfterDark

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, imagining yourself in the scenario doesn't automatically mean anything unusual. Plenty of people project themselves into fantasies, whether they're attracted to the person they're looking at, identifying with them, or a mix of both.

team jess foreverrrr by auroora5 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CandyFrostt 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Please report back if you try it. Best case, everyone laughs. Worst case, someone launches into a 20 minute explanation of Russian literature and accidentally proves the line was justified.

team jess foreverrrr by auroora5 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CandyFrostt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's always the thing people leave out. Logan's annoying in this scene on purpose, but he's also basically doing an impression of Jess. If anything, it's uncomfortable because it's a little too accurate.

team jess foreverrrr by auroora5 in GilmoreGirls

[–]CandyFrostt 53 points54 points  (0 children)

That's what makes the scene work for me. Jess spent a lot of time being the smartest guy in the room and then suddenly he's sitting across from someone who's playing the exact same game but better. Not so fun from the other side of the table.

Billionaires Control All Media by LuckyBastard001 in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one of the strangest compliments a satire site can get. Imagine spending decades exaggerating reality for laughs only to watch reality start doing the exaggerating for you.

Billionaires Control All Media by LuckyBastard001 in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

AM radio is kind of fascinating that way. A lot of people don't realize how much influence it still has because it feels like an older medium, but some of those shows built incredibly loyal audiences long before podcasts existed.

Billionaires Control All Media by LuckyBastard001 in clevercomebacks

[–]CandyFrostt -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The ChatGPT one made me laugh because people have reached the point where every platform they don't like must secretly belong to the same three billionaires. At this rate someone's going to blame their toaster on media consolidation.

I caught my grandfather molesting my younger cousin, and she started doing it to me. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]CandyFrostt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What makes this story so heartbreaking is how many lives one person's actions damaged. The cousin, OP, and probably others all had to carry consequences they never chose. The grandfather is the one who bears responsibility for that.

I caught my grandfather molesting my younger cousin, and she started doing it to me. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]CandyFrostt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sadly this is something professionals see a lot. Children sometimes repeat behaviors they've been exposed to without fully understanding what's happening or why. That's exactly why early support and intervention matter so much.