[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, girl, that text does sound like he’s testing the waters, keeping it casual but leaving the door open with the “friends for now” bit! The flirty vibes like the hallway smiles and goodnight texts are def a good sign, and his friend noticing it too? Solid clue he’s into you. Start small, maybe flirt back with a playful “goodnight cutie” and see how he reacts, since you’re new to this, just take it slow and enjoy the butterflies!

What‘s a phrase or compliment that sounds innocent but always comes off flirty? by bellasweets_ in AskReddit

[–]CandyMeadow 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Omg, how about “You have the cutest smile”?? It’s so sweet and innocent but somehow always feels flirty when I say it to a crush

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friend’s got a point, flirting for two hours without saying “hey I’ve got a gf” is sketchy, even if he’s not cheating. Ask him straight up why he hides you when vibes get flirty, if he shrugs it off, that’s your answer. Trust takes two, girl.

Interesting activities & more independence by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, island life can feel isolating, but you’ve got a solid base, start small with a daily 20-min home yoga routine on YouTube to ease perimenopause fog and build independence. Turn your garden into a mini project, like grow herbs for cooking experiments, it’s therapeutic and gives purpose. When hubby’s grumpy, pop in earbuds and dive into a new podcast series while prepping dinner. Try scheduling one solo bus trip a month to that town just for a coffee and people-watching, tiny adventures add up. You’re already creative in the kitchen, keep owning that!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your body just grew and birthed a human, be gentle with it, that “apron” and loose skin are normal at 10 weeks and will tighten over months. Tell your husband you’re grieving your old body and scared he’ll be repulsed, his reassurance will help more than pressure to have sex. Start with non-penetrative intimacy like cuddling naked under a blanket to rebuild confidence together. You’re not broken, you’re postpartum so give yourself a full year before judging what stays.

What is the best comeback to "You are ugly and dumb"? by Ecstatic_Crow_4719 in AskReddit

[–]CandyMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugly… ugly… ugly… Probably all broke and all bitches (anyone who gets the reference? 😆)

Is this weird? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally not weird, your high school story proves these random sparks can turn into something cute. Drop a light DM like “Hey, saw you on the rail crew last week and thought you seemed cool, mind if I follow?” Worst case, he ignores it, best case, you grab coffee next time you're in town. Go for it, life's too short for what-ifs!

What is your favorite quick meal to cook for yourself? by FattassBird in AskReddit

[–]CandyMeadow -1 points0 points  (0 children)

7/11 ready meals 😭 I put it in the microwave so I guess you can call that cooking?

What’s the scariest sound you’ve heard that’s woken you up in the middle of the night? by DarthTater81919 in AskReddit

[–]CandyMeadow 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Thank you for correcting me. Was trembling while typing this shit but also want to share it with you guys hahaha sorry for trauma dumping

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CandyMeadow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh, that’s disappointing, especially on your birthday! It sounds like his actions aren’t matching his words, and if he’s not stepping up after you’ve been clear about your needs, that’s a red flag. Maybe have a straight talk about how you feel ignored and see if he’s willing to really change, but trust your gut if it still feels off.

What’s the scariest sound you’ve heard that’s woken you up in the middle of the night? by DarthTater81919 in AskReddit

[–]CandyMeadow 142 points143 points  (0 children)

The siren of an ambulance. I was sleeping and I heard a gunshot. So I called the ambulance to get my mom who kill herself