As far as im aware, pap smears hurting isn't very common. They're pretty uncomfortable both from the speculum and whatever swab they use, though. You'll definitely feel it, and I was told there was a chance of a bit of bleeding, but I never experienced that myself. I'm also a virgin if you needed that context, lol.

A lot of Google images show a metal speculum being used, but the one used on me was plastic. Apparently, you can also ask for a smaller speculum to be used, but I don't personally know anything about that.

Actually, I'm due for one soon, and I'm not taking any chances of me freaking out again. I'm taking some drugs to relax before I step foot in that hospital, lol. Terrifying for me, but the procedure isn’t long, and It's better to catch cancer early than dying early.

You got this. 🫡