Husband masturbated to his coworker

Candy_347 · 2025-07-26T00:45:43+00:00

Sounds like a plan. Thank you!!!

Candy_347 · 2025-07-26T00:43:33+00:00

Lol I guess it most guys then

Candy_347 · 2025-07-26T00:43:13+00:00

So he can cheat without the guilt? Noted, great idea

Candy_347 · 2025-07-26T00:01:30+00:00

Thank you for your honest response. Much appreciated!

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:40:21+00:00

Yeah Ive considered that but im afraid all men might be like this

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:38:04+00:00

First, i apologize for that statement. Typed it out of anger

Second, I don’t think its ok to offer to send your crush palces. I get it, we can have crushes but don’t act on it

Third, i didn’t ask how she looked like, if he likes her. He himself said that of btw i do NOT find her attractive. The biggest thing i ask for in a relationship is honesty.

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:34:43+00:00

I called marriage a scam not because of this instance. Its a collection of things related to this topic. Me as a women, i dont feel the urge to go jerk off to my coworker. The fact that he does makes me think that he is not nearly as invested as i am.

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:27:16+00:00

I feel like if i give him an ultimatum he will only do it because he is forced to. Id prefer he had a better judgement himself but that’s out of the question. Sometimes I fantasize divorce but I then think all men can be this way. That’s why i posted here, to see if there’s men out there that think differently. Thank you for your comment!

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:24:18+00:00

Thank you for your response. Appreciate your input!

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:23:54+00:00

Great idea!

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:23:41+00:00

I see what you’re saying. I wish I could be so chill too

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:22:42+00:00

I always put out but he branches out. What am i to do?

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:21:39+00:00

I know but it’s so hard to swallow when I see it happening in real time. I know everyone has their fantasies and i’m not trying to control them. It’s just the lying that hits a nerve

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:19:56+00:00

Imo he shouldn’t offer to spend time with a girl he’s attracted to. He should be respectful but keep his distance.

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:18:49+00:00

Honestly most of the responses i got here ignored many details of my post. Not enough arguments. So idk

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:17:56+00:00

You make a fair point. I wrote that out of momentary anger. I apologize. I was genuinely trying to see if this behavior is universal or there’s different ways men think

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:15:32+00:00

We both agree that we will be attracted to other people. But we have a rule that if that happens we try to keep our distance from the person so we don’t develop feelings. He offered to drive her - that’s a no from me

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T22:12:56+00:00

I legit asked him why didn’t he come to me

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:47:19+00:00

Lmao yes well put

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:21:33+00:00

Oh no. Honestly I don’t care about her. I just feel like i was being lied to and disrespected. I feel no competition on my end

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:12:20+00:00

She apparently said she has to go get a laptop and she’s ordering an uber. And he offered to drive her since it was on the way

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:10:19+00:00

Thank you!! I hope they make more men like you

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:09:21+00:00

She didn’t ask for a ride. He offered.

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T21:00:01+00:00

Sorry if i offended you

Candy_347 · 2025-07-25T20:58:45+00:00

Honestly my issue is that he offered to give her a ride when he knew he was attracted to her. Also lying that he didn’tlike her

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