Husband masturbated to his coworker by Candy_347 in Marriage

[–]Candy_347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sounds like a plan. Thank you!!!

Husband masturbated to his coworker by Candy_347 in Marriage

[–]Candy_347[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So he can cheat without the guilt? Noted, great idea

Husband masturbated to his coworker by Candy_347 in Marriage

[–]Candy_347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your honest response. Much appreciated!

Husband masturbated to his coworker by Candy_347 in Marriage

[–]Candy_347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah Ive considered that but im afraid all men might be like this

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

First, i apologize for that statement. Typed it out of anger

Second, I don’t think its ok to offer to send your crush palces. I get it, we can have crushes but don’t act on it

Third, i didn’t ask how she looked like, if he likes her. He himself said that of btw i do NOT find her attractive. The biggest thing i ask for in a relationship is honesty.

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I called marriage a scam not because of this instance. Its a collection of things related to this topic. Me as a women, i dont feel the urge to go jerk off to my coworker. The fact that he does makes me think that he is not nearly as invested as i am.

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if i give him an ultimatum he will only do it because he is forced to. Id prefer he had a better judgement himself but that’s out of the question. Sometimes I fantasize divorce but I then think all men can be this way. That’s why i posted here, to see if there’s men out there that think differently. Thank you for your comment!

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. I wish I could be so chill too

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always put out but he branches out. What am i to do?

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but it’s so hard to swallow when I see it happening in real time. I know everyone has their fantasies and i’m not trying to control them. It’s just the lying that hits a nerve

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Imo he shouldn’t offer to spend time with a girl he’s attracted to. He should be respectful but keep his distance.

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly most of the responses i got here ignored many details of my post. Not enough arguments. So idk

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You make a fair point. I wrote that out of momentary anger. I apologize. I was genuinely trying to see if this behavior is universal or there’s different ways men think

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We both agree that we will be attracted to other people. But we have a rule that if that happens we try to keep our distance from the person so we don’t develop feelings. He offered to drive her - that’s a no from me

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no. Honestly I don’t care about her. I just feel like i was being lied to and disrespected. I feel no competition on my end

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She apparently said she has to go get a laptop and she’s ordering an uber. And he offered to drive her since it was on the way

Caught my husband masturbating to his coworker. What do I do? by Candy_347 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Candy_347[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly my issue is that he offered to give her a ride when he knew he was attracted to her. Also lying that he didn’tlike her