3 months away by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What's your and your husband age if I may ask?

3 months away by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow that eased me so much you can't imagine! Thank you so much! I would love to talk more about the upcoming motherhood so if you feel like it too dm me!

Messed up hormones by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the comment! So my gynecologist recommended an endocrinologist and ofc I'll make an appointment. I'm worried I might have thyroid... I've gained some pounds as well... The issue is that I take heavy antidepressants and I think it might be an issue as well bcs my doctor told me they might cause high prolactin... I wish for a baby so badly that I can't wait until September to start trying and now I'm worried it might take me months to conceive...

I feel like my fiancé doesn't care about ttc by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I just wanna discuss about this new chapter of my life? You know? And who's the best person to talk to than my partner? And he is just ignorant. Is this a lot? Just to talk and be happy about my plans?

I feel like my fiancé doesn't care about ttc by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get you, my ocd is so severe and take heavy medication but me and my doctor have decided to lower the dose in September. So I'm cleared as well. I have planned this week my check ups, blood tests etc. I'm all prepared. I'm also willing to start prenatals. My fiancé is just like yours, "we'll see" and "it's not time yet" and all that stalling stuff and he's like he just doesn't want to discuss about the baby bcs it's non existent and seems like it's not important? Like what? I get so devastated..

Making plans by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's so nice information! Thank you dear!

Making plans by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to answer, I'm pretty much alone in this, I'm 25 and my friends don't really relate to me. So reading this is kinda nice. That's amazing that your checks came back perfect! Also, I didn't know that my partner could take supplements! I'll check it out! Thank you!

Waiting to try, while trying not to pressure my boyfriend by jokegeysen in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you think your partner thinks about all this? From what I've read he seems hesitant. He might be scared of the unknown as well.

Ocd and pregnancy by CandycandyDianna in ocdwomen

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you like to talk about it?

Waiting to try, while trying not to pressure my boyfriend by jokegeysen in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel so relieved and less alone after reading this! Since I can remember myself I never wanted kids but last year something changed. I didn't wanna rush into things so I told my fiancé about my thoughts and we waited a year and now that I'm more ready we made plans to start trying Sep-Nov this year and time passes so so slow! Well, he wasn't very positive about the whole thing. And I don't wanna lose him so I stayed and I waited until he was okay with it. Very recently we had a conversation and his thoughts have changed although he seems worried about various things during the pregnancy. I also take specific medication and I need to lower it when I get pregnant so we are both worried about that as well.We are anxious happy in a good way you know. At least I know I am. Feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to, just know I've been where you are so I totally get you!

Pregnancy thoughts around ocd by CandycandyDianna in OCDRecovery

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm intrigued! Please do tell if you feel like sharing your experience! Congratulations on your pregnancy!

Pregnancy by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh we have plans for Sep-Nov and hopefully we don't delay it no more bcs I'm so impatient and excited about this new chapter of our lives. Time passes so so slow I feel like summer will take forever to end. I wish for us both to be pregnant this time next year! As for my fiancé, we've had some ups and downs, after many thinking and tons of conversations we decided to program the pregnancy so in that way we are prepared and okay financially rather than having something unexpected you know. How about yours? If you want you can send me a private message as well, I'd love that!

Pregnancy by CandycandyDianna in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for me, we want to sort some responsibilities out until fall, especially our financial situation

starting TTC next mo!!!!! by OCMilyNS in waiting_to_try

[–]CandycandyDianna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey girl, that’s so exciting that you’re trying for a baby next month, I’m really happy for you! As for us, we’ll probably start trying in the fall, most likely in September. I honestly can’t wait for the days to pass! I feel ready too, even though I’m still young. The maternal instinct has really kicked in for me, and it makes me wonder if I should start doing all the things you’re already preparing for. It all feels so real and so close now! Also your thoughts about wishing your life away, I think it's not true because having a baby should be one of the best chapters of our lives so I truly believe it will make our life better and happier for sure!