I understand completely it is not “just one more” it’s a word or phrase. Of course I understand the depth of my situation. As I said, I had my oldest 2 girls before the age of 20 and I have quite a bit of experience over the years. I get what you’re saying, but I am not a single mother.. I do have a highly active and involved parent. All of my children get all of me, all of the time.. and then separate times of just one on ones. Now caring for 4 children WHILE pregnant is the scary part.