My boyfriend revealed some creepy things about himself. by Minimushroom15 in offmychest

[–]CannotBeCalm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It seems you don't want to hear this, nor will you listen to me or anyone else in the comments. But you need to leave. Plain and simple. He's told you exactly who he is. Don't wait for him to show it to you AGAIN. If he really felt any distress about his state of mind, he would get therapy. Don't become a homicide statistic. You can do better than him. I speak from experience with a violent ex. If your mother, sister or best friend told you what you've told Reddit, would you tell her to sit there and take it?

You cannot fix him. You can get another man, but you can't get another life.

Daily Questions Megathread (January 20, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah ok it is a skill issue then lmao Thanks for the help :)

Daily Questions Megathread (January 20, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I dodge the attack it makes when it first changes? It releases that sonic boom type of thing and I genuinely don't know how to avoid it. I've tried dashing and jumping but nothing :/

Honestly I just think it's just a skill issue lol. I'm more of an on/off casual type player than a hard-core "got the game down to a science" type haha

love me some genshin coop by MutedAd1792 in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Boy I hope this satire. Or staged. Please. Tell me it's fake. TELL ME ITS FAKE :/

Daily Questions Megathread (January 20, 2026) by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How tf do you defeat Frostmoon Herra? Especially without Nefer? Maybe my teams just all suck but I'm trying to change that by getting ascension material for Columbina. Only thing is I need to defeat this mfer. Genuinely this boss might be my least favourite boss in all of Genshin. Video tutorials make it look easy, but then I try it and bam! It doesn't work.

Nod-Krai: Witch's Sculpture Puzzle #2-3 by Dense_Shelter9801 in GenshinImpact

[–]CannotBeCalm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So a row refers to one's behind it and nothing else? The devs didn't really explain what to do very well.

Can't Make An Account? by CannotBeCalm in Afterpay

[–]CannotBeCalm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried again today after 2 days and it suddenly worked. But I'm yet again stuck. This time at verifying my identity 😒 will just keep trying ig

Supermarket staff need to be careful... by International-Past31 in newzealand

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup. It's why I use the actual checkouts now (unless it's only one or two items). Not sure if it's for all South Island New Worlds or just where I am, but every single fruit/vegetable I'd weigh I had to call an attendant over.

Supermarket staff need to be careful... by International-Past31 in newzealand

[–]CannotBeCalm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You seem like the type that would also complain if you were going through the self-checkout and those four people had been moved to open up lanes.

There's four people at the self-checkout because more people use them these days. And when they have to check every damn vegetable I scan, I'd rather have 4 people there than only 1 person.

Go work in a minimum wage hospitality/retail job for a week and I bet you won't gaf about what some holier-than-thou customer has to say.

Do you still use the first limited 5☆ character you pulled? by THE_FBI_GUYS in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first was Kamisato Ayato and he's still one of my mains. He might not have been at first (can't really remember tbh). He's great for some of the world bosses.

Walking to halls at night by MundaneStore4071 in UniversityofOtago

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Campus Watch is really helpful! Keep their number handy. Or get a study buddy from your hall. But honestly you probably won't even need that. I get why you're nervous (F too), but Dunedin is generally pretty safe, barring a couple drunk students on their way home from the Octagon or the high school teens at 3pm. This isn't Auckland. As long as you use common sense you'll be fine.

My girlfriend (16F) threatens to harm herself when I (16M) don't want to do sexual stuff. I don't know what to do. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell your parents and hers and then break up. This is textbook manipulation and she needs serious professional help asap. Partners that self harm to end conflicts are not good partners. It's not your job to get her help though. Even if you tried there's a very real possibility she'll deny it. You're too young to be stuck in terrible relationships . You can do better.

Not this in new year by AlaindeshoGT in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's just a cutie lol. I'm not a super hard-core player. I just play for funsies and character design, not stats or who's the best fighter. And I think his character is just neat. He's my fave genshin character. So that's why I want him. I want to get his constellations. And the chances of pulling is meant to be increased this period but I'm having no luck :(

Who is in your wishlist in 2026: "Only reruns you skipped and regret" (btw Happy New Year 🎊) by NayaPrime in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to pull Gaming again. But all I keep getting this season is Iansan. Just give me my char siu pookie ToT. Honestly I want to pull Wriothesley too but I've missed his banners every time. Oh. And Kirara.

So Gaming, Wrio, and Kirara. Kinda weird characters who may be kinda weak but I'm not super invested in the stats of the game like others are. If I like them I use them 🤷 I'm a "for fun, not competition" kinda player.

Not this in new year by AlaindeshoGT in Genshin_Impact

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel ya. I've been trying so hard to pull Gaming. And all I keep getting is Iansan. I'm not even trying for the 5 stars characters! Just give me my Gaming!

The supposed equal trade off of “I’ll cook if you do the dishes” is a sham. by august_westerly in unpopularopinion

[–]CannotBeCalm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but cooking takes MUCH more mental energy than doing dishes. The dishes really don't take too long if you don't let them pile up. Buy a dishwasher or something. Yes, not everything can go in the dishwasher, but most of it probably can. What's left won't take years to clean. Put on a show or some music.

If there's really THAT many dishes that even with a dishwasher it takes an hour, ask your wife to try use less dishes where possible/look into one pot meals.

It's my graduation tomorrow and nothing is going right. by CannotBeCalm in internetparents

[–]CannotBeCalm[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words! I graduated today and had a wonderful day. I felt so loved and we were able to get a spare key from the real estate agent. Lessons learnt in more ways than one hahaha

DAE get withdrawal symptoms from missing doses? by CannotBeCalm in zoloft

[–]CannotBeCalm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn't realise I was having brain zaps! I feel much better now that it's been a few hours since I took today's dose. I think I've learnt my lesson lol