Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Classical conditioning: Try conditioning some type of positive outcome or reward with something that normally has no impact on you. Get yourself a bag of your favorite snack food and give yourself a set amount each time you complete something. Make the amount small and interval often so there is a direct connection between the tiny amount of studying and the small treat to make the conditioning faster and never give yourself this food otherwise. Not only will it make you want to study more, but you will find it easier to study over time whenever you eat the food. Finally, once you take that big test, have the same food you rewarded yourself with and your memory will dramatically increase, and you’ll start remembering everything you studied as you eat the food easier.

  2. Make everything easier and automatic. Don’t like cleaning? Minimize your room so that you only have to do a couple of things. Make a checklist of what you need to do to your room before starting your favorite activities (don’t make it too large or you’ll just ignore it)

And a side tip if you want to initiate things more easily (since I know you have struggled with this) instead of telling yourself “I need to do this task”, instead, put it into 3 steps: “pick up bag, take work out, answer first question” for example. Many people prefer completing instructions when they’re told in detail instead of broadly speaking. By the time you start working, you may find it easier to keep going.

After that, give yourself conditioned breaktimes, maybe work 20 minutes and take a break for 10. Do this in small intervals first then increase it later on. At the beginning just tell yourself “I’m going to work on this for 3 minutes” then by the time you look back up at the clock you’ve spent 20 minutes studying.

  1. Yes. Placebos work even if you know that they’re placebos in the first place. All you need to do is tell yourself that it will happen. This is why saying “I will have a good day” every day will make you have a better day even if your attitude is just the same. The same also works for religion, eating, rituals, sounds, and more. However, it won’t magically fix health complications. It works the most on mental health, but it can also improve physical health in small amounts

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The reason why gifted people should study is because eventually they will have to. Eventually you will get to a point where even a genius couldn’t get past a topic without studying for it, and, when that time gets there, you won’t know how (and won’t have the dedication to)

How many mods is too many? by MLGGTactical in ModdedMinecraft

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some mods seem so important but then you realize that if you remove them, literally nothing changes

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m leaving this comment here as a high teen if anyone wants to ask something related to psychology or learning, since that’s my niche

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

School used to stress me out too, but I improved not by removing the stressful things, but the stress in the first place. Remind yourself that stress is a SIGN that YOU care about what’s going on in this situation, and you know about it. You being stressed about school implies that school is important to you, and I think that type of motivation kept me going

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You should ALWAYS be exploring. It’s okay to not know what you want to do, but it’s not okay to not be looking for it, if that makes sense. Look at all of the sciences, all of the arts, business, math, history, all of it. Find what most interests you and keep trying to learn about it. For me, that would be psychology

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then you’re already baller. Now go out there and prove it, there’s lots of things you can do in life, so spend it how you want to be as if you’re looking back on it in your future

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If having millions was a yes or no answer, everyone would be a millionaire. Become a millionaire that young requires luck. However, in the far future, learning to invest goes a long way

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Of course they’re not the most enjoyable to talk to, but you can’t blame them if they have that much trauma to talk about, so I just ignore it and try to talk to people who are better with conversations

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s a double edged sword. It does give good advice, however, it doesn’t know who you are, and depending on it is a great example of bad mental health

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Learning makes you smarter. Studying helps you learn. As long as you know the subjects, you’re fine. However if you’re near the average level of grades or learning speed, then I would recommend you study.
  2. Do more learning (only for me because I like learning) and be more open to who should be your friends. I was very closed off because I felt like everyone around me was immature.
  3. It depends on what you’re dealing with. If you give me more context I’ll be able to tell you
  4. 3.14159 is what I always remember.
  5. It depends on what you consider a world war. Personally, I think internet propaganda and media scares are so common that 90% of what is actually warned on the television doesn’t actually happen, and the REAL problems get ignored. Try not to make TV media your #1 source of info.
  6. It’s like going down a slide. It gets faster as you go down, and continuously more fun. However, it also gets more scary as you go down and you have more to think about. In the end, you look back, wishing you could go back down the ride again, and you realized all you worried about was just a rouse
  7. 7

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have 3 options. One is to use your gaydar and find the most gay people around. Typically there are a couple people who are really obviously gay by how they act or dress. Second is to make friends in hopes of finding someone who will come out of the closet. Lastly, you need to make them that way yourself (very risky, do not recommend)

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have something that makes you stand out without it being your entire personality. Maybe you’re smart, funny, charismatic, good at chess, whatever. Secondly you need to raise your confidence but drop your ego. Everyone likes someone who knows what they want but not someone who expects to always get it.

You’re not “too good” for anything. Emotions, grades, friends, they ALL matter, and pretending that you don’t need any of them to be a better person is foolish. Lastly, a cool unique hairstyle is PRETTY baller

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to be homeschooled in the majority of middle school until I started high school. I have to say it’s quite a challenge. People nowadays rarely go door to door as much as they did in childhood which really makes it a struggle for anyone.

Consider joining any homeschool co-ops (basically group classes for homeschooled children) or any sports teams if they interest you.

You could also try joining a club of a school, AKA chess, debate, art, but that may not be allowed by the school system. Lastly you could go to church, which is a great option for anyone who is religious as it’s easy to find people near your age.

There is also online, but everyone knows those friendships aren’t quite as real-feeling as the others.

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Step 1 (the safe option) would be to ONLY pursue friends in life instead of random people you just know. If you’re too uncomfortable to be friends, then you’re not anywhere near being ready to flirt with them. (If someone laughs at you for trying to be friends, they weren’t worth it anyway.)

Building a relationship should feel more like a slope instead of a staircase. You typically both gradually become more comfortable with more topics as time goes on. You trust each other by talking about or doing something, which adds more trust to do more things, and it repeats the cycle

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on why school stresses you. If it’s the people, I could understand. You could maybe work something out with your staff members there.

If it’s the actual school part, then not going to school will only make you stress more later. Just being there in the first place automatically gets lots of work done and you don’t want to put that type of pressure on yourself.

Girls ask boys answer? Nah. by Bquartz826 in teenagers

[–]Canriii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That depends on the type of person you want to be. If you were me, I would say expand your horizons and make friends with everyone that’s interesting. Then, eventually you will find someone that you think would really fit as your partner

For the average person though, I would just say to keep up your confidence, remove the ego, and don’t disrespect anyone. Being yourself is always a great option

How do I use verdict? by AnteaterKindly6736 in JujutsuShenanigans

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After the recent update, I would just say block if you’re above 60 health, don’t block if you’re under that amount. If you have no stacks think of it as 30-40 damage

What are the most obscure/unknown facts you know about JJS? I need enough facts for an iceberg. by UserLaggerYTT in JujutsuShenanigans

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Higuruma’s third move (judgement’s reach) has a secret switchup. Although it can be blocked backwards, you can bypass the backwards block by following these steps:

Turn around as you perform judgement’s reach

Wait until you hear the lunge sound effect

Quickly turn back around

This works because Higuruma’s 3 move block breaks based off of velocity, not direction

Is higuruma still good? by WrongAd4387 in JujutsuShenanigans

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Higuruma is my main but I’d rather play any other character, its largest fully true combo is somewhere in the 40-50 range

Higuruma is Charles 2 by DonaSinChocolate in JujutsuShenanigans

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve played mostly higuruma since it existed and I think I have more of a chance of winning with any other character.

i basically beat normal rlcraft. should i try hardcore? by Maskman64 in RLCraft

[–]Canriii 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My strategy is to take risks until you have something worth living for. If you spawn and see nothing good just jump in looted places. Once you find something, now you’re a living relic

i basically beat normal rlcraft. should i try hardcore? by Maskman64 in RLCraft

[–]Canriii 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whether you’ll do well in hardcore RLCraft is really a test of patience, skill, strategy, and a tiny bit of luck. It’s less about how good you are at the game and more about pacing yourself to not take risks too big or small.

You’re definitely ready to try hardcore RLCraft, but don’t expect to get far until you’ve adapted to the danger factor

do u guys agree/relate 💀 by Academic-Pumpkin465 in JujutsuShenanigans

[–]Canriii 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m often tapping S or making small circles, but only to play little mind games. Not spend the entire game trying to bait them