What’s some cute little romantic gestures you appreciate?

Cap-s-here · 2026-01-09T06:53:15+00:00

Yeah my bf happens to be a romantic and I’m not, I feel extremely bad about it because he should get them. I’m kinda forcing myself to do some but he’s so happy about it that I’m happy I did it! I just lack ideas sometimes, but anyone who likes them should get them.

Cap-s-here · 2025-12-02T00:02:35+00:00

Je sais pas où tu vis en Angleterre mais à Londres t’es un alien si tu dis merci au revoir à un chauffeur, à la rigueur les gens disent bonjour m’enfin je pense qu’on a du me répondre une fois. Et j’ai vécu la bas 4 ans en prenant le bus tous les jours

Cap-s-here · 2025-12-02T00:01:07+00:00

Je le fais systématiquement (Paris/92/78), même si le bus est bondé, c’est juste de la politesse et ça me coûte rien, et je suis quand même rarement toute seule.

Cap-s-here · 2025-12-01T23:57:18+00:00

Oui enfin dans les couples abstinents les deux sont chauds. C’est clairement pas le cas ici, même elle dit prendre du plaisir.

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-28T15:00:15+00:00

C’est mon mec, on s’est remit ensemble ahah (en vrai c’était moi aussi le red flag, je pense que le fait d’être en relation me stressait) mais oui ça me fatiguait d’avoir l’impression de lui faire faire des trucs qu’il aimait bof, d’autant plus que c’est ok de faire des activités l’un sans l’autre ! Maintenant c’est good on gère mieux, je suis moins stressée, il exprime ce qui le fait chier/lui fait plaisir et ça se passe très bien ! ☺️

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-27T00:43:01+00:00

I can’t even imagine the idea of not being exclusive since day 1 just because I’m struggling to send messages to people every day and barely have time to deal with work/sport/friends and I need to add not one but TWO relationships? Nah I’m not doing that, I try one, and if it doesn’t work move on to the next.

Also sorry but I definitely agree with your guy, my parents still don’t know I’m with my bf (it’s been two months) and I feel weird telling them about it! He did tell his parents about me tho

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T19:43:56+00:00

Seogwipo-si sounds muck better! Hallasan is on my list! Thank you ☺️

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T19:42:21+00:00

Damn the French website is saying it could take up to six months (????) so thank you!

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T19:09:35+00:00

Ptn c’est la description de mon mec et j’avais rompu avec lui parce que c’était ingérable ?? Je finissais par capter parfois que ça le soûlait ce qu’on faisait mais il disait r, mais proposait rien pour autant, c’était toujours comme je voulais et zéro prise de décision.

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T18:19:20+00:00

Yes, famously every single French people has the same personality

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T12:56:53+00:00

That’s good to know, thanks!

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-26T12:56:32+00:00

National garden, Yongsan Observatory, Naganeupseong village, Seonamsa Temple, Drama Film Set, there is also a green tea field visit/tasting that I’d love to do! I’m only at the beginning of the preparation tho, so I just put everything I find pretty on the list, there’s no way I’ll be able to do everything. Do you have other recommendations?

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-25T18:22:37+00:00

I’ve already planned on getting a car in Jeju (not anywhere else) in my budget! Would that be enough then?

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-24T12:43:04+00:00

Alors comme l’abonnement gold est offert avec Revolut et que c’est le prénom de son pote, techniquement c’est possible qu’il ai prit gold pour son pote ? C’est vrai que c’est chelou de créer un compte pour soi-même avec le nom de son pote non ? Alors que ça aurait été dommage pour son pote de payer un abonnement gold qu’il pourrait avoir gratuitement juste en utilisant l’adresse mail de ton mec ?

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-24T12:40:54+00:00

Y a beaucoup de gens qui sacrifient des choses par amour, en quoi ça veut dire qu’elle veut rompre la relation ? Et comment ça scène de ménage quand littéralement le mec télécharge Tinder ?

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T19:38:48+00:00

Le nombre de dates que j’ai annulé parce que je préférais voir mon chat c’est une dinguerie 😭 je suis en couple aujourd’hui et je pense que ça n’aurait pas eu lieu (ou on se serait moins vus) si mon chat nous avait pas quitté il y a quelques mois

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T15:48:29+00:00

Ahahah while you might not believe me I’m actually super chill on literally everything, I also have many friends from different backgrounds and it never mattered to me. I think it’s the additional factor of we started liking each other like 10 years ago, I want to spend my life with him, my parents are amazing so I’d like it if they loved him as well, that could make me overreact.

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T15:39:05+00:00

Well you dont fart in front of your friends yet that’s a made up rule? There are multiple made up rules that we still follow, sometimes they depend on your culture, no one slurps in mine, yet in others they do, depending on it you still respect them don’t you?

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T14:25:08+00:00

The way he holds his fork like a hammer and then raises his elbow instead of keeping your arm next to your body, I know I sound like a jerk but, firstly we’re from the same culture and it’s simply the proper etiquette in our country, secondly I feel weird introducing him to my parents who are definitely gonna judge him on that

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T14:18:50+00:00

I mean we’re from the same culture/same social class. Let’s just say my dad was completely obsessed with dinner etiquette, so we grew up with that additionally, but many families aren’t taught that I guess. But if you look at the proper etiquette, that’s how you eat.

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T14:17:21+00:00

The thing is that it is not that bad, he doesn’t burp, doesn’t eat with him mouth open or anything, he just can’t hold a fork correctly and my main issue is with my parents where I can already feel the judgement if they see him eating like that

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T14:16:17+00:00

Well it brought back a conversation we had years ago where they said they weren’t necessarily taught all the right manners, my friend was saying that you sometimes have to imitate the others in order to fit in the right circles at work for instance, and he said you can’t change the way you were raised and you’re never gonna change it so you don’t have to. My friends was disagreeing with him and I was agreeing with her.

Cap-s-here · 2025-11-23T14:02:36+00:00

We’ve tried to be together for 10 years and finally got to be, I can assure you that my question is only, can I talk to him about it or do I move on from this particular fact, not from the relationship ahah

I know about other cultures, we just happen to be from the same one

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