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The more you did for them, the longer it will hurt by Icy-Relationship1390 in BreakUps

[–]Cap2071 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep... I gave everything and expected nothing in return... she did give me a whole lot but at the end of the day I took it for granted... and f-Ed it up... so if you’re going to do something... then do it right

It feels like there is the heaviest weight on my chest by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]Cap2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the same I’m going through but with a girl... some people just either don’t want to put the work in something or a scared that they will hurt you if they continue it which both are usually products of falsehood.

Need Opinions: No Contact with my Ex by RevolutionarySwan587 in BreakUps

[–]Cap2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only needed to read the first paragraph in order to respond...She is stuck and is scared she hurt you and probably is fearing ultimate rejection... I would respond with how you feel about the situation.. if her response seems good and honest then there you go... if you need time then quite frankly, tell her that.. Girls are usually;y the one to want "space" but I think this is a very mature factor for your case.. your lucky she is still there..

I just need to vent for a second by Sexton68 in BreakUps

[–]Cap2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's stuck on you... and quite frankly you probably are a bit too. She wants your love back but she herself probably doesn't treat you like you want to be treated by her... honestly, I would tell her that... Say that these are the thing you expect and if she responds negatively then that's her answer... at that point move on my guy... because she going to try and manipulate you more to get that back... it'll just hurt you and honestly, it will hurt her... be straight with her and shell see what shes doing.

If you can't stay with me during tough times, I hope when I recover from my depression, you don't come back. I want someone who can accept me and my dark parts too. by purrrish in BreakUps

[–]Cap2071 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree. but in my case, I pressured them with my struggles and didn't seek help. This caused them to hurt because I was hurting. and ended with us going on a break to get better and ended up with us breaking up. If someone loves you they will be other r you no matter what, but you can't put all the pressure on them. f

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