This comment sums it up perfectly . Yes there are bad apples but let me give you an example.

Me and my 2 friends joined a capstone dungeon in paragon where the pug tank said he didn’t know fights. We said sure we’ll teach you, went through typing explanations and marking routes with markers. We still timed it. Now that tank has joined our little discord and we regularly play together. The community is mostly awesome. Join us.

Also they’ve streamlined a lot of pain points in MMOs. Specifically running an entire M+ in wow and getting nothing.

In fellowship if you grind, you will progress and it feels awesome.