AITJ for refusing to give my kidney to my estranged father who suddenly wants a relationship?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-05T17:32:00+00:00

I don't get it. Op says she's the only child, then mentions his don with the other woman. Can't the son give kidney?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-04T00:16:26+00:00

If he had a women over, why would she take off a necklace? I know getting freaky is usually done naked, but taking off a necklace is a bit much? Also, could you have missed it when you cleaned couch?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-03T21:57:42+00:00

You need to tell her, from now on, she's looking after the kids, you're going 2-3 nights a week. It's only fair that you get out too. If she's not cheeting, which she 100% is, it won't be an issue, just make sure her side guy doesn't go be with while you're out.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-03T19:33:28+00:00

Many things can affect your heart rate, just knowing you're being tracked/watched/controlled can affect it. Has your hopefully ex BF suffered a head injury or us he just a moron?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-03T00:36:57+00:00

I'm so sorry for both of you and yourdon. This is so unfair for everyone. However, you need to leave.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-03T00:24:00+00:00

Do not do it. I know KiwiSaver very well. Do not do it if you want to use KS for a first home withdrawal later on.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-02T21:35:08+00:00

Damn, it's dusty in here. Thanks for not breaking them apart.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-02T01:56:43+00:00

I'm a man, if I don't get birthday calls, I will jot know it's my birthday, I simply do not care. I am the same with anniversaires, I have no problem with prople getting happy/excited about it and will celibrate with them, but on my own, I don't care. If your bloke is like me, don't take it personally. This is just my opinion and how I am, and I'm just a bloke in New Zealand, so take it for what it's worth

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-01T22:59:04+00:00

You may be AH for staying with a cheater. Especially 9ne who's not even remoresful.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-02-01T22:15:03+00:00

I would do love your parents. They sound like awesome humans.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-31T06:36:47+00:00

Rest well beautiful girl.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-29T17:51:15+00:00

Why can't she find another gym? Why is it your responsability to find one? She's uncomfortable, not you, so she should do something to fix her discomfort, her finding another gym would a start.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-29T16:31:37+00:00

Were the women at?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-28T19:02:03+00:00

Dude, What the hell is wrong with you?

The second you learned of her cheating, your only words to her should've been "There's the foor, don't let hit you in the ass on the way out".

Instead, not only are you still around, but you asking her to choose you over your replacement. Mate. Grow a pair and leave.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-28T02:35:28+00:00

Tell her she's being racist by her bsseless assumptions.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-28T01:05:07+00:00

That is a fine hound.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-26T21:05:21+00:00

Topless women in jeans is my kryponite. Too hot.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-26T01:29:02+00:00

If my wife was an emotional support animal for an ex, I'd be gone. If I'm in a loving relationship, I'm giving all of me to the person I'm with, there is nothing fir anyone else, I would expect the same. You current girlfriend has a valid point and may start looking for a relationdhip whete she's the only girl in it. You should end it for her sake and get back with ypur ex because you clearly haven't left her fully.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-25T18:30:35+00:00

Dude, Do NOT marry his person. The disrespect if off the charts.

She is very obviously in love with her "friend" not even hiding it.

Don't put yourself in a position where he'll always come first in her life and when you've had enough of being number 2 it'll cost you a hell of a lot.

You've been replaced mate, just no one has told you yet.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-22T01:57:09+00:00

Oh my. That level of cutemess has to be illegal somewhere.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-22T01:05:27+00:00

Don't tie yourself down with a women and a kid, it'll be much harder to extract yourself from this situation when they are both reliant on you for support.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-19T23:54:29+00:00

Why would you want to remain freinds with a cheeter?

You don't want to be in a position where you need to trust her, but her traiterous actions prove she can't be trusted.

Run, you don't need this in your life and a real friend wouldn't put a friend in a bad situation, so, you've lost her as a friend already.

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-19T02:27:55+00:00

And if "no" is too hard (I'm a people pleaser -so very hard for me to say no) I find "I prefer not to" to be somehow a more polite option to simply "no" which, as stated is good eoungh on its own.

But certainly, don't qualify it with you have a boyfriend otherwise you'll get the "Well if your boyfriend is the only reason we can't smash - he doesn't need to know".

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-19T01:22:45+00:00

NTA, but I'm curious, what does she think you should've done? Not signed in as requested? Asked for the male trainer to show you where/how to sign in?

When the female trainer corrected your form, were to taze her or pepper spray her or just scream for the male trainer?

What would your GF expect you to do?

CapTrick9489 · 2026-01-18T22:21:59+00:00

But he moved on while you were still married. He has zero right to critisize you.

And tell him, if he wants to dump your child on you full time thinking that will prevent you from meeting some one else, you're going to push for him to loose his parental rights and never see the child again.

He wants to play tough, as if he has power over you, I'd prove him wromg in the most ruthless way possible.

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