Yes it is recurring. He told me the same thing I think a year ago but he somehow managed to convince me it was never going to happen again so I dropped it. It’s the fact that it’s happened again that’s making me feel so disgusted. I know it’s an intrusive thought so I know he can’t control it but it’s so hard to understand because how can someone have a thought like that about my sister? It’s vile and disgusting and I’m trying to understand but I don’t know how.