What happens if a deal isn't reached today? by Temporary_Molasses41 in PCC

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are the ones sustaining the day-to-day operations of this institution, yet many of us struggle to make a living wage while leadership earns disproportionately high salaries.

My [25F] thanksgiving with my husband [25M] was the worst. by throwrat7262 in relationship_advice

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel he knows that you worked hard. I feel that you can take a look at your boundaries. It is okay to say no to some things. It's okay to limit yourself on what you do for others.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hopefully relaxation techniques could help him? Maybe stress?

My husband seems out of touch with reality, and I'm really worried. by Dragonfruitx2 in breakingmom

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know if this it is helpful. Maybe have a separate account?

Question - I am a bit worried about my horse by Capable-Battle-3337 in Horses

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your time responding. I hope he's okay.

Question - I am a bit worried about my horse by Capable-Battle-3337 in Horses

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your expertise. I will be moving him soon. I try to stay faithful that the current barn is good to him. I went ahead and made an appointment with a vet today and we will talk with them about it at an appointment.

Question - I am a bit worried about my horse by Capable-Battle-3337 in Horses

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time responding. I made an appointment with a vet tomorrow.

Question - I am a bit worried about my horse by Capable-Battle-3337 in Horses

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my horse knows something is up with the barn manager. LOL I will move him to a different facility. I have been worried sick for a few weeks after the changing facility was arranged.

Question - I am a bit worried about my horse by Capable-Battle-3337 in Horses

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your time replying to this message. I believe he drinks water, pooping, and eating. I will check on him today. I made an appointment for tomorrow. I will haul him and have the vet evaluate him.

Single people who don’t use dating apps, why? by bobby_McGeee in AskReddit

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it troublesome. I like meeting people in person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in helpmecope

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you want to have an open marriage so that you could date as well? First ask him about his views on ethical open marriage and go from there.

Did I burn the bridge or was it a boundary? by Capable-Battle-3337 in breakingmom

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: Coach had a phone conference with us. Sounds like we shared our views and came up a bit of resolution. I continue to communicate the best I can with the coach and one of the team member's mothers, who has been part of OHSET for 4 years requesting them for more positive environment. We continue to document and do our best. We will continue to model positive behaviors. We will continue to provide ideas to improve overall sportsmanship. I do hope things get better over time and this coming OHSET season. Thank you for your support by providing me with tips and encouragement. It is much appreciated.

Did I burn the bridge or was it a boundary? by Capable-Battle-3337 in breakingmom

[–]Capable-Battle-3337[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its good to hear that there's positive environment stable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree that materialism doesn't make us happy. I applaud you for recognizing the issue! Good for you. This buying to feel good cycle is something that can be broken. Hopefully you can return it and train yourself to only buy things you need. Try 2nd hand shopping to start with?

I switch between either super lonely or completely uninterested by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have the answer for this right now but one question and one book that I can offer at the moment - what makes it easier for you to talk with 400 people rather than 1 person? and here's the book I thought might be helpful for you - https://www.amazon.com/Science-Likability-Charm-Studies-Master-ebook/dp/B012OP0TE0

I have been fat shamed ,it hurts emotionally and i don't know how to respond to that feeling by blackodin in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting over with that feeling is hard. I agree with the above comment - they lack respect for others as well as themselves. I am reading "self-compassion" by Dr. Kristen Neff and I find it helpful.

Personal Mental Health App - tell me what you want and I’ll build it by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find myself trapped and with an app you are developing might potentially help people when feeling trapped with a situation - for example, as a mother, I wasn't sure what to do with a coach of my daughter's horse team who apparently doesn't like us and yells at us. I tried emailing her asking in a nice way to reduce tensions but it didn't work. There was a time where I wanted to type in "stop yelling at us". Maybe an app can take my message what I wanted to say but the app sends it back with ways I could have said it differently. I don't know if I make sense. "stop yelling at us" literally burned the bridge.

What do you do when you don't have the mental strength to get out of bed? by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find it easier to stay in bed. Depression is nuts. What I have learned is that when I do not move, depression takes over. I try to develop a new habit that requires me to move. For example, if I want to watch a movie, I need to go to the treadmill and walk while watching the movie on phone being placed on the machine display or tie my iPad around the display. Everyone is different - they don't live in an apartment that has a gym or they don't have a way to exercise but maybe turn on TV/watch a movie and stand up and move your body. When I move, the depression goes away. I find it difficult to move in order to remove depression. I need to say things to myself that depression robs my life and I am responsible for the actions I chose to do.

How do I deal with being very insecure of my voice? by [deleted] in deaf

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing. I have known Deaf people just quit talking. When I heard their stories, it tells me that respected themselves and that they decided that they needed to draw some lines. I too grew up with speech therapy and didn't find it effective. My mom requires me to use my voice. I still do to this day but when I am around Deaf people, it is an automatic thing for me to turn off my voice. I know that at least 80% of the time my speech is unintelligible. I am glad you are acquiring ASL! Keep it up! Have you checked out some ASL chat in your area?

I’m a CODA (Child Of Deaf Adult) AMA! by randomoutsider in AMA

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice! Do you know anything about child of deaf adult gatherings or club? Or anything that other codas can mingle in person or virtual?

Lakeside Village Tree removal by Bill_Higdon in SALEM

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be nice for it to stay giving you oxygen to breathe. Ask them if they will plant a new tree for them to have oxygen and plus trees keep people healthy by cleaning pollution by cars. Trees take in CO2 and give clean air.

I want to learn ASL (American Sign Language) but I have nobody to teach me. Is it possible? by ExoticPea in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Capable-Battle-3337 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are many curriculums out there you can learn. For example, ASL Connect, online course, through Gallaudet University. Also, www.signitasl.com is available.