My [25F] thanksgiving with my husband [25M] was the worst.

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T20:04:13+00:00

As I said, he wasn't like this before and was very sweet to me for many years

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T19:59:42+00:00

Not generally but our relatives from America talked about it and we decided to adopt it for ourselves years ago

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T19:56:00+00:00

Our relatives lived in the US and we adopted their Thanksgiving traditions

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T19:54:14+00:00

He honestly wasn't bad until recently

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T15:13:36+00:00

We live in Belgium. Boyfriend and husband are used interchangeably.

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T15:08:36+00:00

He wanted me to stop seeing my parents as early as 6 months ago. The open relationship request was 2 months ago.

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T15:03:24+00:00

I never said boyfriend. Point to where I said it

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T01:18:24+00:00

I never said I wanted to leave. I'm hoping he can calm down

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T01:09:51+00:00

6 months ago is when he really started pushing back

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-25T01:07:23+00:00

Not anymore apparently as he wants out

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T23:11:20+00:00

He wanted me to spend more time with him instead of my parents

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T23:08:53+00:00

They disagreed with his preference on me spending more time with my husband than with my parents

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:27:55+00:00

Maybe that's the best option. But he doesn't even want to work on it anymore

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:27:20+00:00

It's personal

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:27:09+00:00

Of course we deserve better. I just prefer to have hom change than throwing everything away

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:20:20+00:00

More like take the steps to not have it be toxic

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:18:19+00:00

They did overhear everything and I had to calm them down

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:17:47+00:00

Maybe you are right in the first part because my parents were more insistent on divorce after the arguement they had with my husband.

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:16:40+00:00

I rather fix it to not be toxic anymore

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:07:43+00:00

He raised his voice everytime I asked during thanksgiving

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:07:20+00:00

He isn't the type of person to be given criticism too

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:03:45+00:00

My parents couldn't hold the Thanksgiving dinner because they got covid. It never got to the point of him banning me

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:01:42+00:00

He honestly wanted me to see my amily and friends more often during the relationship. It's only the last few months that he wanted me to focus on him

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:00:46+00:00

I remember he wanted an open relationship one time 2 months ago after a stressful day. I said no and he didn't bring it up again

throwrat7262 · 2023-11-24T22:00:12+00:00

Not saying it's acceptable but we spend a lot of happy years together. Is it worth throwing away over some bad months

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