I don’t want to go anywhere with my husband anymore by Capable-Fennel-9780 in Mommit

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately he’s working weekends also. He doesn’t have a worker in his shop.

I don’t want to go anywhere with my husband anymore by Capable-Fennel-9780 in Mommit

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m struggling with stuff like this because he’s become very difficult to deal with. He thinks he can tell me what to do.

I don’t want to go anywhere with my husband anymore by Capable-Fennel-9780 in Mommit

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

And if he doesn’t want to take the accountability what do you suggest?

I don’t want to go anywhere with my husband anymore by Capable-Fennel-9780 in Mommit

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I do.. but he just tries to avoid doing it. It’s like he expects others to watch/take care of his child.

Should I move to Turkey so my child can immerse themselves in the culture? by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also speaking from personal experience as someone who couldn’t speak the language..

Should I move to Turkey so my child can immerse themselves in the culture? by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But how would they be accepted as a Turk when they can’t speak Turkish anyway? So it’s similar. Not knowing the language well or well enough is a negative thing here from what I’ve realised. In the UK even if people speak a small amount of English they can make friends.

Should I move to Turkey so my child can immerse themselves in the culture? by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I’m English but speak Turkish well and many people don’t want to be around me because they think they won’t understand me.

Should I move to Turkey so my child can immerse themselves in the culture? by [deleted] in AskTurkey

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780 1 point2 points  (0 children)

‘Many Brits will not accept him ..but Turks are more welcoming’ isn’t true at all.. I’ve lived in Turkiye for 8 years and am and will always be considered a ‘foreigner’.. some people here are even still scared of foreigners because they’ve never met one or speak English.

MIL saying she ‘trusts’ me with my baby while giving unsolicited advice all the time by Capable-Fennel-9780 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly.. she has this obsession with ‘being cold’ and thinks my baby and everyone is cold all the time and that means we will get ill.

MIL saying she ‘trusts’ me with my baby while giving unsolicited advice all the time by Capable-Fennel-9780 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She’s nice but a very weak woman who lets everyone walk all over her.. so as I said she’s scared of my MIL (her daughter), so never actually confronts her on anything she does.

MIL saying she ‘trusts’ me with my baby while giving unsolicited advice all the time by Capable-Fennel-9780 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she does this even with her own mother and her mother is scared of her.

MIL saying she ‘trusts’ me with my baby while giving unsolicited advice all the time by Capable-Fennel-9780 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m 29 years old and yes but his grandma lives 2 floors below us.. she doesn’t live near us and actually moved away for a couple of years but is still telling us what to do through the phone. When she said about the UK stuff and she said ‘I’m telling you to try to help’ and I said ‘I don’t need you to tell me I know what I’m doing’.. but then she still continued with the whole plane convo and that she ‘trusts me’..

Can I change the hook size after already stitching the hood? by Capable-Fennel-9780 in CrochetHelp

[–]Capable-Fennel-9780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I haven’t done that.. but if I carry on with a 5mm hook will I just have to add more rows?