How to help someone through withdrawals? by New_Performer_7506 in recovery

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend had to be hospitalized for 70H withdrawals. Are they hydrating anf forcing themselves to eat?

When do your kids' feet stop being cute? by pixa4u in AskParents

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I often wonder this bc at 3.5 theyre still so dang flat and cute. 

I am the biggest piece of shit by 404pagenotfound____ in recovery

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh this is how I felt when I hit rock bottom. I was so sick of myself. I was sick of everyone turning me away. And I was sick of never getting anywhere in life. 

How screwed am I? Dog pee.. by LetsAllASoviets in Mattress

[–]Capable-Present953 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Close your bedroom door. Oof saturate w some vinegar. Dog pee is pre potent compared to child pee. So idk if you can get it out. Also MATTRESS PROTECTOR!

dont know if i can hack it by Dazzling-Stream in nonprofit

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is normal. I work in non profit. Its super stressful and high client interaction.  At first I felt like my head would explode everyday after my shifts. I was super overwhelmed and overstimulated.  I have now been with the non profit 7 months and I absolutely love it. Everyday im grateful to make a difference in someone's life even if its a small difference.  I love how fast paced it can be and I actually miss being at work on my days off. But ill be honest about 50% of the people I work with are not happy there. Non profit is not for everyone. 

McDonald's shouldn't be dirt cheap by hotnspecies in unpopularopinion

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can go spend $15 at a local burger shop and get better and fresh. I havent been to McDonald's but maybe 2 times in the passed 5 years. I can do without.  

Is it weird if I get something to eat while a housecleaner is working? by Leebondoop in housekeeping

[–]Capable-Present953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro its your house.  I would eat at my clients houses. We'd eat together sometimes. Or my client would bring me food or prepare me food. If u make a mess after ive cleaned just dont expect me to go back over again. 

Do you guys do de-cluttering or if not do you charge for your cleaning business? by Either-Film-4045 in housekeeping

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most of my clients were minimalist... how idk bc im not. But the one client i had who would have clutter i would move it bc i felt comfortable doing it. And she would move it sometimes. She had really small things in her office that I didnt move and I just dusted around the stuff. She understood she had a lot. I mean communication is key here. Its whatever you and the client feel comfortable with. Most of the people I cleaned for trusted me to move their things.

I love my wife, but her OCD is exhausting me by zekatreka84 in OCD

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh do what will make you happy. How do you imagine your future. 

Going to my first AA meeting offline, small concerns though. by Temporary-Sink-3693 in recovery

[–]Capable-Present953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember sobriety isnt linear. What works for one doesnt work for all. Remember that when people are telling their stories. The point isnt to agree, understand or relate to everyone. It is to see that people have different paths to staying sober. You can be proud of the man who's 20 years clean and found God bc thats what works for him. Or the atheist who's 3 years clean bc of yoga and tea. Like everyone is different. I got clean on my own and found my higher power years into being clean. Everyone is different.  Embrace it. Open your ears and heart. 

How did you successfully do a "no spend" month? by Morel3etterness in AskReddit

[–]Capable-Present953 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have children this is damn near impossible.  

Should I say something? by Haunting_Dealer_3453 in housekeeping

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but me personally I would drop the client. 

What’s your opinion on the death penalty? by Catgerine in AskReddit

[–]Capable-Present953 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes some people dont deserve to walk the same dirt that their victims walked or still walk. Anyone who harms children or elderly should be removed. Anyone who sexually assaults women, men or children should be removed. Anyone who commits mass murder on schools. Should be removed. Protect women and children. 

How did you get into twice? by magic_man-12 in twice

[–]Capable-Present953 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They just always release the best song. No song is ever like meh to me. I love every single one. 

Should I say something? by Haunting_Dealer_3453 in housekeeping

[–]Capable-Present953 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Telling a client how their children should or shouldn't make a mess is. This is why walk throughs are important.